Anal hurts - plz help
Posted Sat Sep 16, 2006 12:53 PM
Posted Sat Sep 16, 2006 04:17 PM
Posted Sat Sep 16, 2006 05:03 PM
Posted Sat Sep 16, 2006 10:52 PM
i think you should first practice with fingers and/or toys. keep in mind most penises are thicker than even a few fingers...my cock is a little less wide than 3 fingers side-by-side, some are smaller, some bigger. work up to comfortably putting three of your fingers in all the way to the base, and then anal sex wont' be as much of a big deal.
if you feel pain during anal sex, there are different kinds of pain...like bruising pain, or tearing/ripping pain. tearing pain can be a sign of small tears in the skin of the anus. these generally heal very quickly, but if the sex was very painful i would recommend waiting at least a week before trying again, maybe even up to two weeks to be safe. if you have a bowel movement and feel pain when it comes out, then you need to wait more before you start anal play. bruising pain isn't a function of stretching of the skin but it just means that you aren't relaxed enough...either that or the guy is just being too rough. i've found that pain of the bruising sort takes longer to heal.
Posted Sat Sep 16, 2006 11:49 PM
Posted Sun Sep 17, 2006 10:52 AM