(not) in the mood
Posted Fri Sep 22, 2006 02:04 AM
Posted Fri Sep 22, 2006 03:48 AM
Posted Fri Sep 22, 2006 05:40 AM
If you go into Morpheus ( the free version) , you can download a "softer porn" by typing in "soft porn" or "soft core". For instance, Danni Ashe has a sweet preview of several pretty nude girls presented in a "cleaner" manner. Veronika Zemanova has a seductive shower scene. In these, no guys however....but you might find some that do.
Posted Fri Sep 22, 2006 08:14 AM
i think you need to address each of these questions separately. start by talking about it...and see how he responds. if things are meant to work out between the two of you, you will be able to work through these issues, and things will get much better after you talk about them. if he reacts negatively or doesnt want to talk, that is a very bad sign and i would recommend to break off the relationship. if he talks and seems to be making an effort, but things still suck...well, then you need to decide for yourself.
bring up the thing about the porn too. it is hard to find good porn, but im sure you could find something you both liked. if you can't...well then, maybe you should think about what that says about his flexibility, or your compatibility.
from my experience there are two things that could be going on with this guy. he might just be inexperienced at pleasing someone, and maybe you aren't speaking up enough, and he doesn't realize how much things suck for you. that's one possibility. the other possibility is that he just sucks. i hope this isn't the case but it is a possibility.
either way you need to start by talking about these things and then seeing how he reacts. good luck.
Posted Fri Sep 22, 2006 08:32 AM
Well mine is a macho man, self centered and of course it's all about what HE wants; I wouldn't want him any other way! Mind u, it's not exactly a relationship; we've got 30 years agegap. So it's more about me obeying and him treating me like a disobedient child; most will say we r perverts but I think it's more 'normal' than couples who get turned on by pissing and shitting in each other's mouth! Anyway my point is we r not equal, no one is exploiting the other either -some imply that when they hear of agegap relationships- so it's hard for me to demand anything from the man of my dreams, my idol.
I guess I'm screwed ha?
Posted Fri Sep 22, 2006 06:22 PM
Posted Fri Sep 22, 2006 06:25 PM
Posted Fri Sep 22, 2006 10:00 PM
I am for sure, though lately we have been getting right into it, well, I have we've been doing the Master/slave thing