stretching out the anus
Posted Sun Sep 24, 2006 05:17 PM
i have been slowly trying to stretch out my anus, because i really like having things inside me, and i love the feeling of fullness i get when i have bigger objects in me. i have a few butt plugs, two silicone and one acrylic, which i use sometimes. i cant get the largest one in the whole way but im hoping to work up to it.
in terms of fingers i can fit 3 of my fingers in all the way to the base, comfortably. i can put 4 fingers in but not the whole way, and its less comfortable.
i guess i have questions to see if anyone else is doing this. also, i have questions about pain sometimes. i am very good at relaxing and i never feel like the muscles are holding me back. on the other hand, the skin around my anus is very tight...when i stretch it i feel like it is the skin holding me back from going farther and not the sphincter muscle. when i stretch it sometimes i get a raw feeling, like a burning feeling, like the skin is stretching. but i feel like the muscle could handle much more.
also a few times i have gotten small tears after a rough play session, ones that are visible in a mirror. these usually heal very quickly. on the other hand, sometimes i feel worried just because a lot of the stuff i have read tells me that if you feel any pain with anal, it means you are doing something wrong.
what do other people think? have you ever had experiences like this when trying anal sex or other kinds of anal play?
Posted Sun Sep 24, 2006 05:25 PM
Posted Sun Sep 24, 2006 05:33 PM
About the skin, use moisturizer regularly, especially after a session. Sounds like some aloe there wouldn't hurt you either. Use tons of lube. You don't want it to bleed there either, but it isn't as bad as bleeding inside.
Posted Sun Sep 24, 2006 05:55 PM
Posted Sun Sep 24, 2006 05:57 PM
Posted Mon Sep 25, 2006 12:14 AM
Now first and foremost, the pain is there to tell you when you're going a little too fast, like picking up a heavy object too fast hurts, but if you do it nice and easy, no pain but a feeling of a small burning sensation, the same type of sensation when you stretch your muscles. Understand?
Okay, what I would suggest for you b4 you begin your sessions if you already don't do them is take a nice hot bath, not shower, helps get everything nice and relaxed and loose. And start yourself up slow, using butt plugs because they don't require assistance once inserted. Now the problem I had was I had a small, med, and large butt plug, the large one I couldn't fit all the way in when I first bought it, so this is what I did. I would use the med butt plug to get myself accustomed to the feeling and for the most part I would push to til the widest part was at my sphincter ring, working it slowly in and out at that widest point, I did this for about 10min, but do it til that is absolutely comfortable, so take as long as you need.
Now, take a large butt plug and basically, your going to do the same thing. And as always, use plenty of lube, if you're not satisfied with water based lubes, please get some silicon based, it LASTS and is really slippery, be careful not to spill any on a hard floor: wood, bathroom tile, you WILL SLIP if not careful, so please excercise caution. Now slowly start working it inward, pushing it in the point where it burns but no really any pain, and slowly take it back out. Keep doing this over and over and more will be able to be inserted. Now don't think you can do this all in one day, you might, you might not, so don't make a goal "I will do it today", go slow and you will get it. Sometimes what I was do is lay in bed and push it in til I got that burn and then roll over on my back to where the bed itself held it there, and I would either masturbate, read a book, watch a movie, whatever to let my anus get used to that size. Then I would take it out and do it over again. I was able to fit it after about 2 or 3 days I can't remember, but god the feeling of being so filled up, wonderful. Sometimes I would so this in while I was in the tub, wedged it to the point of the burning sensation, no pain and read, silicon lube was used because the water soluble would have been washed away.
I hope this helps. Let me know how well this works for you.
Posted Mon Sep 25, 2006 07:57 AM
Posted Tue Sep 26, 2006 11:24 PM
It does take time to stretch the skin of the spinchter, however. After several years of stretching, I was able to put my whole hand in my wife's ass. I suppose if you really practiced, it wouldn't take but a few months to be able to do that.
Posted Fri Oct 27, 2006 12:16 PM
im not sure i would like the thought of someones hand up my bum
Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 06:14 PM
Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 07:26 PM