Looking for female honesty
Posted Mon Sep 27, 2010 05:24 PM
So, I'm new here (obviously) and am hoping some people will take the time to respond and give me some answers. Basically, my dilemma is I'm a 21 year old male (about to turn 22 shortly) and a virgin. Been on dates with a few girls but never had a proper girlfriend. Trying to build up the courage to put myself out there more.
What I'm looking for here is for females to perhaps just share their feelings on dating a virgin. If you knew beforehand, would you still have said yes? Would it be a turn-on/turn-off for you personally?
Thanks in advance.
Posted Mon Sep 27, 2010 05:35 PM
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Posted Mon Sep 27, 2010 09:59 PM
As for your question .... why would you tell a girl that ? For me it honestly never crossed my mind once until the moment it was about to happen. Which looking back now has me in laughter because i remember thinking "Oh Shit i hope i know how to do this" Then i told her either before or after it i cannot remember nor can i remember her reply which means only one thing. ITS NO BIG DEAL.
Posted Mon Sep 27, 2010 10:27 PM
And you can frame things either way i.e., positively and figure anybody who has an issue with it is missing out, or you can be negative about it, in which case this will needlessly zap your self confidence.
Posted Tue Sep 28, 2010 12:17 PM
I was a very shy person (still am). Meeting girls for me was very hard . . . so I took the approach that bank robbers do. When asked why they rob banks, bank robbers say because thats where the money is. I wanted to meet girls so I hung out where there were alot of girls, in my case it was a dining hall in a girls dormitory. I was one of a few dozen guys that was there with several hundred girls per meal. Guess what? I met a girl.
By the time we got around to having sex we were such good friends it seemed the natural and right thing to do. There was no nervousness, no embarassment. I wasn't the best lover by a longshot but the beauty of it was that it didn't matter, because it was her. The orgasms, and the physical - neurological - biological stuff was secondary to the emotional stuff.
The best thing was that it got better with time.
That was almost 40 years ago and it keeps getting better with her every day.
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Posted Tue Sep 28, 2010 12:54 PM
After she calms down from laughing hysterically I am sure she will express her appreciation for me with a big kiss and a request to have me go switch the laundry from the washer to the drier. I love working at home.
Me .......... pussy whipped ...........?
Sure .........and I love it.
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Posted Fri Oct 08, 2010 07:49 AM
Hehehe that`s a mental image that will stay with me until the dawn of my days...
You two guys represent a banquet of verbal diamonds! My deepest respect and humble admiration to you both!
Looking forward to more memorable quotes to be obtained in the future. Thanks for producing several small smiles and huge grins in an otherwise pretty straightforward existence!