Question for well endowed guys Do you get any special treatment from women?
Posted Sat Oct 02, 2010 08:07 PM
Posted Sat Oct 02, 2010 08:33 PM
If I get the impression that a guy is going to be one-time thing, I ask for measurements... Not just length, but also girth. In my case, I know exactly what makes my day, so if there are no chances of taking things a little further, I stick to what I need to enjoy myself. So, I guess that for casual sex, I lean towards bigger guys, but if things get extended to more meetings, I don't really care much.
The problem with casual sex is that you don't know the other person or what makes them tick, so it's all experimental, and experiments are risky. After a few encounters with the same person, you start knowing what works with the other person, and so you develop techniques to please them. It's as simple as that.
So, based on my experience, my guess would be that bigger guys would probably get more one-night stands all things being equal, but have equal chances to land a relationship, which depends a lot more on other factors.
Posted Sat Oct 02, 2010 08:42 PM
I would like to think that my personality was what clinched the deal ...but who's to say that my equipment didn't sweeten the pot. LOL
Posted Sat Oct 02, 2010 10:59 PM
Posted Sun Oct 03, 2010 12:56 PM
Posted Sun Oct 03, 2010 02:46 PM
Posted Sun Oct 03, 2010 03:26 PM
However, I guess you would have to get the word out there. There was an old funny Onion Article that was titled "Ugly guy with huge penis, struggles to get the word out".
There have been a few occasions where I have gotten referrals. I don't think it was size related more technique related. I know girls talk, I slept with one girl and her best friend the next night. She said "she told me you knew how to put your face in the place and say grace". I though it was a funny line.
Posted Fri Oct 15, 2010 06:23 PM
I think in general, women might give special treatment to the guy who gives special treatment to them. The guy who fucks them like no other. The guy so makes them cum sooooo hard. THAT's the guy I think would get the special treatment and the most respect.
But what do I know. I'm a guy.
Posted Fri Oct 15, 2010 09:05 PM
I've had a few women refuse sex with me outright, not wanting to deal with my size; others have needed a lot of patience (and lubrication) to even get in halfway. But I feel that, even for all the others, size is not what made sex pleasurable: it was a commitment to having fun sexually.
Many large guys want to ram it in to the hilt, thinking that's great sex. It's usually not a good thing to think with your penis; it's also not a great idea to try to see or hear with it, either. Watch your partner- see how her expression changes, how she touches herself and you, hair-pulling, sheet-grabbing; listen to her, the sounds she makes, the things she says, the pace of her breathing.
When you're inside her, feel how she opens for you, how she grips your penis, then releases it. Gauge her response when you back out almost entirely, then slide back inside; when you put only the head of your penis in, stroking just the opening of her vagina, as she thrusts her hips toward you, begging you to go deeper.
When it comes to respect from women, the number of orgasms wins over the number of inches every time...
Posted Sat Oct 16, 2010 02:22 AM
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Posted Sun Oct 17, 2010 08:40 AM
It's only with hindsight that I understand how screwed up I was when I was 30 and still drinking. I was still able to hold a job even if I did not show up on Monday and tended to leave a bit earlier on Friday.
I was living in a flop house in San Pedro called "Walt's". Walt also had a bar in the same building. It was a sad little beer bar with a 12" black and white TV for entertainment. The draw for me was Walt let me run a tab and that was important. The "Farmers market" was across the street and that was important also. I lived off of beer, bar food (hot dogs, pigs feet, pickled eggs) and ribs from the market.
I had a brown suit and a pair of pointed toe shoes both from some yard sale. The shoes got wet one day and I put them on the radiator to dry. The toes curled up like Genie shoes. All this seemed normal to me at the time.
So one night I'm in Walt's drinking beer on my tab in my brown suit and Genie shoes wishing I could drink rum when in walks Carol. (Not her name) She was married to a sailor who was away a lot. Not bad (as I remember) but not much above OK in looks.
Carol on this day had something that made her beautiful to me. She had some money and wanted me to go drinking with her. We started out at the Office bar hit several joints drinking the good stuff and ended up at Irene's. We picked up a bottle at the liquor store across from Irene's and on to her house.
It did not take long at her place to get around to what we were there for. Her fucking. Me working on the bottle.
Now something you men will not understand unless you have spent months drinking hard. Every day, day in day out drinking. That night I had a hard on that would not go away but could not get off. We started fucking at 2:00am and didn't stop, except for drinks, until her kids came in for lunch money at 7:00am. I got up then and went to work.
When I walked into my room after work there was something I really didn't want to see Carol. Also something I did want to see a bottle of rum.
We went through two bottles of rum and fucked all night long and at about 4:00am she said "Gee you are a great lover" Being a wise ass I said "Don't tell me tell your friends" and she did!
So here I am at a time when I could care less about sex and I have girls showing up at Walt's wanting to screw my dumb ass and willing to feed me booze to do it. One of those women was my first wife's mother.
It was at this time when I met my first wife Josephine. I was in love with Jo from the moment we met and it was a marriage and divorce later before I had another woman.
This story started in 1968. I got sober in 1975 and we divorced in 1981.
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