She is taking things slow, i like her, shes exotic, and we have so much chemistry, but the issue is, id like to experiment in the bedroom more, costumes, cuffs, toys for both of us. But shes like I want to know you want me for who I am, Which i do, No question about it.
But Like i said I do like to experiment, we did buy a strap-on and when we got it, I used it on her and then she was going to use it on me, but we never did. (thing is huge too, would love a smaller one)
But now we are talking about bedroom talk more, and so hes like be patient which I totally understand. QUestion is, how do i help her move along with it? or guide her?
I keep reassuring her shes beautiful and I love everything about her, Tell her daily shes great and all that.
Shes ok with trying the strap-on but shes only doing it for me, and I just feel so guilty. Makes me 100% not want to do it, will she eventually enjoy it?
The only time we take pictures is when we have a few drinks in us.
until just recently where she saw her breast looked amazing on the couch and she asked to take pictures of them. (she had a dress blouse on and not sure whatelse, but a nice black and pink lined bra on under)
she said this to me "well im more reserved im a more private person, we are just different in that wayit doesnt make it wrong its just different just like you are spanish and i am white neither are bad just different"
What do you girls/guys suggest??
This post has been edited by Kaleb: Wed Oct 20, 2010 02:12 PM