anal sex tips
Posted Wed Oct 18, 2006 01:56 PM
Posted Wed Oct 18, 2006 02:04 PM
Slip in the backdoor and hope you don't meet a log.
But in all seriousness, they have a tiger balm out now that's herb based. It makes anal sex quite plesurable for both partners. It's got a slightly numbing action for her, and a warm action for you. Check your local sex shop. Worht the price
Posted Wed Oct 18, 2006 02:10 PM
my girlfried says "ass is for shit"
so anal sex is just my dream for now
Posted Wed Oct 18, 2006 06:12 PM
well, i'm a guy, but i can give some advice seeing as i've done it with two women, both of which enjoyed it
first, anal is not just something that you do out of lust, or just being horny...nor is sex in itself, or any type of horny behavior
i would strongly recommend making sure you love your partner before engaging in it, along with making sure you trust him
first off, talk about it, read about it, learn about what possible consequences there are (go to sue johanson's website, she's got alot of info)...go to google.com and type in her name, and just look for her site, and navigate the site from there
next, when you commit to doing it, make sure that he understands that when you say "stop", that he stops...he should never do anything unless you tell him to go
make sure that the both of you communicate while doing it...make sure that he periodically asks "are you ok?" every minute or so, or however frequent is deemed necessary...but make sure he's really asking out of concern, not just because he SHOULD make sure you're ok
also, use pleanty of lube...don't underdo it because you're afraid to get some on the couch, or the bed...when coming to anal, more lube is better than none
now, while doing it, make sure that you remind yourself that you're engaging in a sexual activity with somebody you love, and try to mentally let that tell you that it feels good...based on your question "how can i make it feel good?" it sounds like you've done it before, but physically, it was not enjoyable...which is why i say try to let your mind overcome the physical feeling of it
there are many things that make women enjoy the sensation of anal; such as the thrusting principle...some women are like "omg just the thrusting alone feels so good"..nevermind the fact that they have a penis in their ass
there are many things and ways to go about anal...if you have any questions, feel free to pm me, or anybody else, or search around for some info on it...but make sure you and your partner together learn about the pro's and con's of anal sex toGETHER so that you know what you're both getting into
Posted Wed Oct 18, 2006 09:42 PM
Posted Thu Oct 19, 2006 01:08 AM
Dang, now I'm worked up. Good memories.
Posted Thu Oct 19, 2006 09:58 AM
Posted Thu Oct 19, 2006 10:53 AM
Posted Wed Oct 25, 2006 05:13 PM
On an average day, if u dont go all out and use enemas or whatever, does it get messy? If so how messy is it? That's the one thing that no1s really specified in everything I've read about anal. I'd be really embarassed if i got shit on his cock....
And if it does get slightly messy, what do people do to prepare??
Please help! lol