He wouldnt fit?
Posted Fri Oct 20, 2006 12:31 PM
(1st Hi everyone im new-ish)
My well my sex buddy and myself met up on wednesday to have sex for the first time we'd done sexual things before and he is very big but i didnt worry about it. So i met up with him on wednesday and we got into it and we went to have sex and he just would not fit in! and he is not my first sexual partner hes my third, ( but i havent had sex for about 9 months)
We tried different positions and used a bit of lube but we couldnt get him inside me. We got his penis in once and i did get quite a bit of discomfort but i moved and he slipped out.
It didnt bother me too much because i was very happy with giving him oral and him returning the favour.
Any ideas on what we could do?
I dont know exactly how big he is but hes big and hes fairly wide as well.
Posted Fri Oct 20, 2006 06:02 PM
also, what are you used to having inside you?
maybe you should just practice with some larger objects, on your own time, when you masturbate. or you could try doing some of this with him--if he's like most guys, hed probably enjoy it pretty much.
the other things to think about are...were you really turned on when you went to have sex? the more turned on and relaxed you can be, the easier it will be.
hope this helps.
Posted Sat Oct 21, 2006 06:25 AM
Also, like cuddles said, get as horny as you can so that you're really moist and use more lube maybe?? Try lubing his cock up too, that might help.
Posted Sat Oct 21, 2006 07:25 PM
Posted Mon Jan 01, 2007 04:47 PM
And I agree, practice makes perfect. Try using fingers or something else until you can handle his penis.
Posted Tue Jan 02, 2007 09:01 AM