Posted Wed Nov 03, 2010 12:02 PM
Posted Wed Nov 03, 2010 12:13 PM
I have a blog about the Fleshlight and pictures of what it looks like, if you are interested in taking a look. You can get to my blog by clicking on the "Blogs" tab above or going to my profile and finding it there. Before you make up your mind, you should also take a look at their official site - if for no other reason than to see what options there are. The Fleshlight really is custom-made by you when you order it - you can get a mouth, pussy, or ass for the outside (it all really depends what you prefer), and you can get various textures for the inside (some tighter, some "normal"/the standard model, some with swirls/ridges/bumps on the inside for a little more stimulation, etc.).
I also think you should see what types of responses you get in this thread before making a decision. Somebody else may have a better suggestion, and the Fleshlight may not be the type of toy for you. It's only one option.
Posted Wed Nov 03, 2010 07:52 PM
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Posted Thu Nov 04, 2010 12:27 PM
Hello, I was reading different posts and came across yours. You should try a stimulator they have so many everywhere. We bought one and it was amazing but I recommend you search for the one that fits your needs. Check out this site adult fascination they have they toys listed nd some even have videos to show you how to use it etc... Thats how I chose the one for us cuz seeing that so many toys are out there we didnt know how to use many of them so by seeing the video or the desrciption it gave us the comfort of knowing we werent gonna get a toy we didnt know how to use lol hope this works.
Posted Thu Nov 04, 2010 01:31 PM
Yep, and it should come with a care and cleaning guide of some kind. The insert thing is open at both ends, so water just goes right through it to clean it.
You might want to use a little bit of lube. It seems like it can be pretty tight, so it might be tough to get inside it without a little bit of the slippery stuff. BUT you CANNOT use anything except WATER-BASED lube on it if you're going to use lube rather than lotion or something else. If you use silicone-based lube or any other type that isn't water-based, the material could be ruined!!
Posted Fri Nov 05, 2010 12:07 AM
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Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 07:19 AM
A question for you because I'm curious - how long did you last once you actually were able to get inside the Fleshlight and start fucking it? I've heard that (because the Fleshlight is so tight) men don't tend to last very long - at least when they first use it anyway. In your experience, is that true? I'm sure it's something you can get used to and that you would eventually start to last longer once you have used the toy a few times.
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 11:34 AM
Well, not to say I was actually watching the clock or anything, but my internal clock says it was about 15 minutes or so. I also gave it a try this morning. It was about the same time for that as well. 15 to 20 minutes or so. But I mean, I haven't had sex in like...5 to 6 years, and even then that was only like...not much. But, I could see my time becoming smaller and smaller actually after a while. I do like it so far, and it feels good and all. I just happen to be a special case I guess where I am going to have to get used to the feeling. I've been sheltered
Posted Sat Nov 13, 2010 12:59 AM
It's either impressive, or it is sad. One of the two. There has just been a lot of hand action going on. I like women and all, but I also really value my solitude.
Posted Sat Nov 13, 2010 08:05 AM
There are a lot more available now then there was 10 years ago. It's nice to see the variety!