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Posted Sat Nov 06, 2010 12:06 AM
Porn works wonders to keep horniness at bay. But yeah, you need to have issues for that to happen, living in an urban environment full of reasonably attractive women.
I should know: I lusted for women since an early age but didn't have sex until years after I was out of high school. Even when I finally had sex it was terrible. But once I finally got my shit together and abandoned my boyish inclinations, my sex life got exponentially better and I definitely made up for lost time.
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Posted Thu Nov 11, 2010 01:23 PM
I totally respect you and anyone that holds off on sex as long as they can. I was a virgin until mid/late 20's. I always wanted sex and though I would get it at an earlier age but things come up and when those certain oportunities arrise it was always something that held us back. I never wanted sex with someone that got around and was too picky on the "right" girlfriend. I am glad I waited. I also feel that moving slowly into sex, as most things, leaves more to look forward to (how, where, when, etc.)... Anyway, better to be safe (in a lot of ways) than sorry. Thats one reason I enjoyed masterbation with porn and especially with people on the internet who had mutual interests. Really got me through those urges and believe me there were a lot of them!
This post has been edited by Daveshere: Thu Nov 11, 2010 01:23 PM
Posted Thu Nov 11, 2010 07:33 PM
It would appear that you have a somewhat different value system than your friends regarding sex, that doesn't make you weird, it just makes you an easy target for them to pick on you.
Women have wildly different attitudes when it comes to sex, and most of us are able to respect each others differing stances (granted only when women respect each other, listen to how often the word "slut" gets thrown around and you'll see how it's not that different).
I think I'm getting a little digressive here, but the point is...well...fuckem.
No one's opinion should carry any weight when it comes to the very, very, very personal decision about whether or not you want to or are comfortable having sex.
Your friends need to grow up.
Posted Thu Nov 11, 2010 09:34 PM
You fail at being a real man. Real men sleep with everyone woman in town, and even some of the men. And they brag about it, and post pictures on revenge porn sites, etc.
Seriously.. Why do you worry about it? And why do want to hang out with these so-called friends who make you the butt of their jokes? Only thing I see is that it must make them feel better about themselves to put you down. Tells ya a little bit about how they must feel about themselves if they have to find some way to elevate themselves above you, no?
Bellalla really gave the best response, IMO. Listen to her.. except the fuckem part.. at least not literally :-P