Dudes: Have you ever cum inside a girl without asking?
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 04:49 PM
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 04:56 PM
But hey, never done it without a condom before, so maybe I just don't know all the etiquette.
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 04:56 PM
IDK - I'm not dating or having sex in today's world of sex and condoms and STDs. But If I had told a lover that I was on the pill and that he didn't need to use a condom, I would NOT be upset if he ejaculated inside of me. In fact, I would think I was pretty much telling him he could!
It is refreshing to hear you asking if you were being disrespectful. I don't think you were, but again, I'm from a different generation (I am assuming here as I don't know your age).
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 05:13 PM
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 05:16 PM
This post has been edited by robot85: Tue Nov 09, 2010 05:20 PM
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 05:57 PM
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 06:01 PM
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 06:17 PM
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 08:29 PM
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 08:33 PM
Just because a female is on the pill doesn't mean they are ok with having sex and the guy getting off in them. Some females use BC simply to regulate their periods and that sort of thing. Obviously sex feels better without a condom, but still to me and most people probably it doesn't make it ok to finish in a girl even though she said she is on the pill and that you don't need a condom.
EDIT: Guess I should answer the question, no I have never done that without asking, even when given permission I still don't always perform the act regardless... It would be my child to, and I don't want one.
This post has been edited by wingsfan2430: Tue Nov 09, 2010 08:48 PM
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 09:20 PM
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 11:29 PM
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 11:32 PM
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 11:38 PM
Are you saying you weren't ok with it, or that you didn't care it happened?
I don't remember exactly, this was several months ago, but I think I was the one that asked if I should wear a condom, and she left the choice up to me, which I chose NOT to wear one. She had an IUD as well.
This post has been edited by robot85: Tue Nov 09, 2010 11:40 PM
Posted Tue Nov 09, 2010 11:43 PM
Hahahaha. She's old news, but yes she was good. However, as I got to know her better, I realized she had some psychological issues, and eventually we mutually went our separate ways on good terms.
This post has been edited by robot85: Tue Nov 09, 2010 11:44 PM
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 05:03 AM
I have only ejaculated in one woman without having a conversation about birth control prior to having sex. But, she got on top of me and, knowing I didn't have a condom on, inserted me inside of her and rode me. So when I said "I'm gonna cum" and she didn't stop riding me, I came inside her. As far as I'm concerned, if she didn't want me to cum inside her, she would have gotten off my cock when I said I'm gonna cum.
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 06:51 AM
The girl in your case, OP, sounds like she`s either a little nuts or that there might have been something else that set her off.
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 09:22 AM
As for me, I'm clear about what I don't want, beyond that, he can do whatever he wants...
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 10:43 PM
I do think that if a woman explicitly expresses a lack of need for condoms that that is reasonably tantamount to permitting you to cum inside her. I would never express to a man that he could forgo a condom if I didn't want him to ejaculate inside of me.
If for some bizarre reason I was okay without condoms but not okay with him ejaculating inside of me, I would specify this and explain why.
Personally, I believe that's reasonable.