Do i turn him off? Sometimes he gets soft
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 10:08 AM
i havnt had many sex partners but the ones before my current bf always stayed hard as a rock. Other than that everything
is great. So is it me, do i turn him off? Or do some guys just have that problem? Keep in mind i have seen his past gfs and
they are hot, much moreso than i will everbe
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 10:25 AM
Have you tried to talk to him about it? I know that can be a bit awkward, but as long as you do it without making him feel like he isn`t doing his job I think you will both benefit from it. Good luck!
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 11:27 AM
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 01:01 PM
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 01:02 PM
If the issue hasn't cleared up in a month or so, sit him down in a non-confrontational manner to discuss what might be causing him to stay soft. Best of luck.
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 02:12 PM
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 08:06 PM
Posted Thu Nov 11, 2010 03:37 AM
drunk, stoned, loaded or tired - if he's a heavy partyer (or a heavy worker), it takes a toll on the love life
less sensitive penis - a guy who masturbates a lot toughens the skin of his penis, and therefore needs serious stimulation during sex; this is because the vagina usually doesn't grip as hard as the fist of an excited guy. In this case, the man's gotta show his partner what works for him, to keep him going. I had a woman decide to shift gears after we'd been kissing and fondling- she started giving me a foot massage. I went to sleep...
anxiety - either worrying about 'measuring up' to your previous lovers, pregnancy, STDs or even how to please you can cause a panic-driven soft-on.
As was stated earlier, you can't fix the problem without talking with him; neither can we. You need to bring up the subject- preferably not during sex- and get an idea of what he's feeling. But understand: it's not you. If anything, it may be the both of you, but this is not your fault alone.
This post has been edited by ScottyWright: Thu Nov 11, 2010 03:43 AM