Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 05:29 PM
Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 06:03 PM
Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 06:09 PM
^^ What she said.
Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 06:12 PM
Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 07:26 PM
Let me say that my kids were never the wiser to what he was doing to me as we were always fully dressed and usually had a pillow, cushion or blanket on us while watching t.v. Also the kids were sat on the floor in front of the tv. I would never have exposed my kids to anything inappropriate so all is good. They are now grown up!!! And for my husband, I have never considered it abuse, just pleasing the man I married I guess. He is a wonderful husband so please don't be too judgmental.
Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 08:25 PM
Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 08:31 PM
Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 08:36 PM
Not trying to judge or anything... everybody has different views on relationships. Hell I've heard of women who agree to live under the complete authority of their husbands, even submitting to disciplinary spankings
Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 10:02 PM
That's not judgemental, it's an experienced technological evaluation, based on extensive research in the field.
The anal thing is only an added bonus.
Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 10:31 PM
1. A person describes a hair raising situation.
2. The person asks a trivial question that skips over all the worse problems.
3. People pick up on the worse problems in their replies.
4. The person suddenly back off, says it really aint so bad--the offender is actually wonderful.
And you know what? The police see that pattern of complaints and retractions from victims of domestic abuse all the time.
So let's see. He uses emotional blackmail to dominate you sexually and has sex in a way that gives you pain. He puts you in danger by having you perform sex acts on him while he is driving. He performs sex acts in the presence of minors.
You need self respect, and you need to protect your safety for the sake of your kids, and you need to protect them too.
Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 11:00 PM
Posted Mon Oct 30, 2006 11:03 PM