What Do You Think?
Posted Tue Oct 31, 2006 09:03 PM
Ok here's the thing..I'm seeing someone ('seeing is being used loosely here..it's more like he's a "buddy"). He told me he recently had a foursome with three girls. I don't know nor did I ask if he knew them.
I'm still attracted to him and I've always known going into this that it wasn't monogomous. Not on either part. The big problem I have (as I should) is that I don't want to be given any special gifts from this..if you know what I mean. SO...I don't know if I should go near him again!!! Opinions?
Posted Tue Oct 31, 2006 09:16 PM
Posted Tue Oct 31, 2006 09:18 PM
Just have yourself periodically checked out to make sure you don't get anything if you choose to continue to have sex with this person.
Posted Tue Oct 31, 2006 09:33 PM
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Posted Tue Oct 31, 2006 09:45 PM
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Posted Tue Oct 31, 2006 10:07 PM
Posted Tue Oct 31, 2006 10:13 PM
So what are you asking us?
Posted Tue Oct 31, 2006 10:37 PM
Posted Tue Oct 31, 2006 10:40 PM
Go with your gut feeling. If you're feeling like this::icon_puke , then maybe you should think twice about it before following through.
Posted Tue Oct 31, 2006 11:02 PM
There are plenty of interested men and I'm sure even men that you would find attractive.
So maybe it isn't just a casual sex thing with you?
Maybe you've developed feelings for this person?
Posted Tue Oct 31, 2006 11:06 PM
Posted Tue Oct 31, 2006 11:35 PM
Posted Wed Nov 01, 2006 12:47 PM
2. It sounds like you already know what you should do.
3. Good luck!
Posted Wed Nov 01, 2006 02:18 PM
You brought up a really good point with this. There really is no safe sex, just SAFER sex.
Posted Wed Nov 01, 2006 03:22 PM
Posted Wed Nov 01, 2006 03:29 PM
Sweetie, it only takes once! Just because he was honest about his foursome doesn't mean your other partners havent been up to no good!!
Condoms, Condoms, Condoms!!
They don't eliminate the risk of std's but they greatly reduce it--if you're having multiple partners you owe it to yourself and to your partners to always use them
Posted Wed Nov 01, 2006 06:16 PM