I did something very wrong and feel terrible :'(
Posted Fri Nov 26, 2010 06:54 PM
Posted Fri Nov 26, 2010 07:03 PM
However, that being said let me say this. The best love relationship you can ever hope to have should have a deep friendship as a foundation. If she is a good friend indeed ... maybe there is something there that needs to be talked about. If after talking about it you agree that it needs to stay as friends and nothing else that is fine. But if it turns out that you agree it needs to be something more, then that is another bridge that you need to cross.
You need to talk about it though.
Posted Fri Nov 26, 2010 07:09 PM
yes you'll find it hard to act normal, thats because something out of the norm has happened between you.
do what ten suggests, i agree totally with him x
Posted Fri Nov 26, 2010 07:46 PM
Posted Fri Nov 26, 2010 07:49 PM
I would say that you probably feel more and don't want to, and that she probably does too. TALK!!
Also, while it takes 2, she is the one who "cheated" on her bf, you "cheated" on a friend. And a friend of a friend.
I think it is commendable that you feel horrible but it seems like it comes down to loosing your circle of friends. And while that is hard, you can make another circle of friends if you feel as if it is too uncomfy to stick around her and your/her friends.
You have some thinking to do - pro/con decision making... but i think talking with her about both of your true feelings is really important. I think you mean more to one another than you are letting on. and you didn't mention that you were drinking, etc, so it WAS a thought-filled decision, right?
Posted Fri Nov 26, 2010 08:54 PM
That makes me feel even worse and I'm just going to ignore that but keep in mind that if it does come down to that I will man up and take all the blame for everything because I feel it was all my fault and will expect no forgiveness from anyone because I do not deserve it. But to everyone else thanks for your advice and I do agree that we need to talk but after everything I said lets talk about it and she just kept saying no I don't want to talk about it lets just pretend it never even happened and I can't get her to.
This post has been edited by FakTorThis2651: Fri Nov 26, 2010 08:57 PM