Posted Wed Nov 08, 2006 02:10 PM
Posted Wed Nov 08, 2006 02:21 PM
First load you blow - 5-10mins
Second - 10-20mins
Third - 20-45mins
The times stay about the same till you get to like 5 and 6, and then it's up to about an hour. Now of course, all of this differs with the amount of pleasure you're getting, the more you're getting, the more on the low end of those figures you're likely to be.
With the first time you had sex, being drunk enables you to lower your sensitivity on your dick, but your brain knows what it likes, so you can stay harder, longer, and without the worry of cumming too fast. So what you need to start working on when you get a steady g/f is focusing your mind so that you can control how much sensation you're taking in. It's REALLY hard to do, and in some cases you don't even want to, but it helps tremendously in the long run when you want to go for an hour and a half and have done 5-10 different positions.
Good luck bro.
Posted Wed Nov 08, 2006 02:45 PM
The best thing to do is make sure you get her to orgasm first, either manually or orally. Then when you have sex it won't really metter to her how long you last. Also, as you near orgasm, slow down or stop and let the orgasmic feeling go away, then resume thrusting. You can last longer this way and when you do finally "let go" it will be much more intense.
Posted Wed Nov 08, 2006 03:29 PM
You'll see that the more experience you have with it and with a partner, you'll be able to gauge better and beter how long you can get yourself to last.
I think that the key for me, and probably something that most guys won't do, is to totally stop thrusting if you're afraid of premature ejaculation. JUST STOP and tell her you need a minute. Use the time to kiss her or lick her tits or whatever. But whatever you do, don't keep pushing because it's going to be over and you'll have nothing to show for it.
Posted Wed Nov 08, 2006 05:44 PM
I think everyone is different man. I have no problem what so ever getting hard when I'm drunk. Quite the opposite. Even after I cum, I still stay hard, even more so than when I'm sober. I do have problems cuming when I'm drunk at times, but that is just a bit of frustration on my own part, and my lovers to a degree. She wants to know that she is pleasing me as well.
I don't have a duration really. It completely depends on the situation, how turned on I am, when the last time I masturbated was etc... There are too many variables to ever give a precise answer.
Posted Wed Nov 08, 2006 06:05 PM
Why? Were you sure about her disease status?
Posted Wed Nov 08, 2006 06:10 PM
Actually I wasn't sure. It kinda just happened and the condom was ignored. Obviously not a good move but I don't plan on doing that(or her) again.
Posted Wed Nov 08, 2006 06:45 PM
Posted Wed Nov 08, 2006 06:48 PM
Well keep using condoms then. And not just to help with duration but to keep your partners safe.
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