How do a women choose a "sex buddy?"
Posted Sun Nov 12, 2006 12:40 PM
Posted Sun Nov 12, 2006 12:56 PM
Posted Sun Nov 12, 2006 01:18 PM
Posted Sun Nov 12, 2006 01:19 PM
I actually go out looking for sex buddies. I know it is risky business but I have to have sex 3-4 times a week to get some type of gratification. Most of the women I deal with are professionals so they can only allot me one day a week so I have to either be horny all week or call someone different. You could say that I am a nympho.
Posted Sun Nov 12, 2006 02:22 PM
Sometimes i'd call him over to my place, sometimes i'd go to his. And yes, i used to call him and say, 'i'm horny, want a fuck?'
Posted Sun Nov 12, 2006 10:17 PM
I ALWAYS leave after sex. No sitting around talking and/or cuddling, and definitely no sleeping over.
I generally refrain from calling or answering his calls anytime during the day. If I needed to make sure he was available, I'd send a text. (My usual way of putting it: "Have time for a long night?")
If I absolutely felt the need to be in public at any point with him, it was usually a strip joint. No fancy resturaunts, no real dates. See tits and ass, and go home and fuck.
Posted Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:41 AM
We then went over the pro's and con's and have been pretty much together since. I like to eat out (more than just resturants) and catch the odd movie, although we often wait untill it comes out on disc.
Neither of us like the bar scene, we're kinda outdoorsy types, (too damn cold for that shit now),so we've got 5gig's of music on here, take some wine/liquer into the bedroom with some candles and my fur lined handcuffs, and see who's turn it is to play bad boy, bad girl...he he he
Posted Wed Nov 15, 2006 11:57 AM
Posted Thu Nov 16, 2006 12:38 AM
How do people find such "buddies"? It depends a lot on the person, everyone is different. But the biggest, most important things are that the woman has to be looking for such a thing...and she is is going to require a man who is (a) attractive to her, ( safe -- that means she knows that the guy is totally cool with exactly what she wants and no more and no less (that is, he's not going to turn around and want a relationship, etc.) and most importantly © makes her feel wonderful. this means not only good physically but emotionally too--the last thing a woman wants to feel is cheap. most women who are looking for such "buddies" want someone who can be a friend (with whatever boundaries she wants to set), who is respectful, etc.
Posted Thu Nov 16, 2006 01:53 AM
We were friends, but there was absolutely no ties beyond the sex. She actually compared sex to bowling..."something to do."
Posted Thu Nov 16, 2006 01:54 AM
Posted Thu Nov 16, 2006 01:58 AM
Nail on the head... don't say "u are a great fuck buddie"