Can you openly masturbate in bed When wife says to take care of business yourself
Posted Mon Dec 13, 2010 01:53 PM
Posted Mon Dec 13, 2010 02:21 PM
Posted Tue Dec 14, 2010 01:42 AM
Mr._C. wakes up very early for work (before dawn), so I hate to wake him up for sex during the work week. I feel bad if he's tired the next day because he would have gotten the sleep he needed if we didn't have sex. During the work week, I masturbate in bed next to him while he's sleeping on a regular basis. I do it between zero and maybe three times a week (depends on how horny I am, etc.). We catch up and have regular sex on the weekends. We usually have sex several times between Saturday and Sunday - sometimes two or three times a day. When I masturbate in bed while Mr._C. is asleep, I rarely use toys and never watch porn. I feel like it's enough for me to be masturbating with him right there - it would just be disrespectful, IMO, to watch porn on top of it. I just use my hands and my imagination. In fact, Mr._C. is sleeping right now and will be awake in a few hours to go to work. I'm horny, but I don't want to wake him up. If I'm not too tired when I sign off, I might diddle. I really don't know ahead of time.
Posted Tue Dec 14, 2010 07:39 AM
Posted Wed Dec 15, 2010 10:16 PM
Posted Thu Dec 16, 2010 01:05 AM
2. I would have a nice hot bath..
I would never give up that part of the day
Posted Sat Dec 18, 2010 01:31 AM
Posted Sat Dec 18, 2010 03:13 AM
It make her horny and need to eat my dick...
Posted Mon Jan 24, 2011 06:04 PM
Posted Tue Jan 25, 2011 01:16 AM
In bed, in the family room, in the den, in the back yard. She will usually watch me, even if she is not in the mood, which makes it more fun for me. Often times it will get her in the mood - which is better for me
Masturbation is one of those things we don't have a problem with. We do it alone, with each other. We buy toys for each other. We even talk about it, my wife often asks me when I last masturbated.
Posted Thu Jan 27, 2011 05:38 AM
I roll back over and start to masturbate, within a couple of minutes she turns over and looks at the size of my cock, if i am well hard, she will say, ok how long, i might say just a quickie, with that she says come on then, i dont want that wasted, and we have a quick 69, sometimes she will blow it on my belly, other times she will say ok, im ready, fuck me you bastard, thats when i enter her and when i am ready i will say in or out, she changes her mind all the time, and if she does not reply, it is because she really has got into it, i hold back let her cum then follow right behind.
When i used to get home from work, i would come in, total silence, with the exception of her rabbit, or tongue, i would go up, and watch her as i stripped, and she watched my cock just stiffen up, as she masurbated, when she was done, she would invite me to join her.
Masturbation on its own, it has never really been our thing
Posted Sat Feb 26, 2011 12:50 AM
My wife lost ALL libido at menopause, and about 2 years after that, she asked that I desist with sexual intercourse. I knew she was no longer enjoying the act as she used to.
I knew it was coming, as her usual extreme enjoyment of all things to do with sex had disappeared. HRT was not an acceptable option. I responded that it was OK with me so long as I could attend to my needs as and when I needed the release.
That was the deal, and I now masturbate about every 4 or 5 days, usually in bed beside my wife, in the shower, or at the computer watching XXX. My wife knows about the XXX and even now sometimes shares the show as I watch and wank.
We have not had sex for 18 years, and I miss it terribly but nevertheless I am content, and forever grateful for the acceptance and understanding that keeps me sane.
Any other seniors here in the same situation?
Posted Sat Feb 26, 2011 01:22 AM
If I wanted to, sure, my wife doesn't mind. Hell, she's even twiddled it while I was sleeping, which both pissed me off and turned me on. I would have much rathered her just wake me up so I can join in on the fun.
Posted Tue Mar 22, 2011 05:10 PM
Posted Wed Mar 23, 2011 12:01 PM
Posted Wed Mar 23, 2011 06:36 PM
I love watching her get herself off and she feels the same watching me.
Posted Wed Mar 23, 2011 07:42 PM