Dirty Talk...how dirty is too dirty?
Posted Thu Nov 23, 2006 03:31 AM
Before I continue, let me just say that both she and I believe that certain aspects of feminism can be left at the bedroom door, so to speak. I respect women whole-heartedly, and most of our dirty bedroom talk is spoken out of fun and fantasy. Really, I think that's probably the only healthy way to enjoy it. If a man degrades his lover in bed night after night because he truly believes that she is less than him in some way or another, there's another issue there altogether.
So, I'd like to ask the women here - when does dirty talk become too dirty? What words take you from being turned on to being insulted, if any?
Posted Thu Nov 23, 2006 11:04 AM
Of course not all women are up for it but I think thats only because they are to embarressed to get into all that, but I do believe theyd enjoy it once they got past that aspect.
And as you said, an insult is an insult, belittling someone because you truly feel they are lower than you is means for that person to become upset.
The only way I see that happening is if the man has the woman feeling so down about herself to the point where she believes him, but I dont truly see any woman enjoy that kind of talk.
Posted Thu Nov 23, 2006 11:08 AM
You always want head. We love it. We always have to watch, right.
Right. And if you've got a lot of hair we fucking turn into Vidal Sasoon
all of a sudden. We got like scrunchies, banana clips comin out of nowhere.
Hairspray *SSS* Good. Good. Front row seats. I like that with the lips.
The thing you're doing with the lips is good.
You know what's so weird. Why does this happen?
This is a weird thing. Phenomanon. Right, sometimes guys,
you're having sex, right. And everything's going great.
Everything's you know-. Right.
All of a sudden you hear like a voice comes into our... our brains.
Starts telling us to say shit like... Yeah say that! Say that!
That's perfect! Say that right now. Right, and you're like Yeah.
I'll fucking say that. You just grab her hair and you whisper...eghhh.
You don't even think about it. Just say it ya fucking say say things.
You hear what I say? You like that huh? Right, you say- but sometimes
you say some shit and you think of it like two hours later and you're
like "What the fuck was I talking about?!" And you get like embarrased.
I was with a girl recently, right. I was totally just in the zone.
Out of nowhere I was like...
"Uh yea my dick feels like corn!"
Sounded good at the time!
She didn't even miss a beat she was like
"Give me the butter baby give me the butter!"
Come on Orville Redenbacher... pop that pussy.
We should just have an orgy right here right now.
Let's just turn off the fucking lights and everybody just feel around!
Let's turn off the lights and play a game called uh
"Who's in my Mouth?"
What did you say? Careful? What are you like my lifeguard?
Careful... careful Dane! What are you spotting my jokes?
Posted Thu Nov 23, 2006 12:02 PM
'You are a dirty whore, aren't you?' etc so forth...not ok with me.
Posted Thu Nov 23, 2006 12:30 PM
LOL, he's great.
Posted Thu Nov 23, 2006 09:53 PM
as for dirty talk, i've never really done it, but i honestly do really like it when something slips out of my girl's mouth. guess i dont really have much to add to the topic at hand...sorry. lol
Posted Sat Nov 25, 2006 02:10 AM
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Posted Sun Nov 26, 2006 10:50 PM
I agree talking dirty is fantastic and makes the sex even better if both are really into it.
Fucking like a pornstar is a lot of fun.
Posted Mon Nov 27, 2006 12:08 PM
Dude: Baby talk dirty to me...
Chick: I'm gonna fart in your face!! I'm gonna shit all over these walls!!!
Posted Mon Nov 27, 2006 01:46 PM