Cheating ruined our sex life!
Posted Sat Dec 25, 2010 11:31 AM
Posted Sat Dec 25, 2010 01:36 PM
This post has been edited by R&R: Sat Dec 25, 2010 01:41 PM
Posted Sun Dec 26, 2010 01:25 AM
Posted Sun Dec 26, 2010 01:26 AM
Posted Sun Dec 26, 2010 06:56 AM
I could never continue dating a cheater. women should know that females can get laid quite easily and should avoid temptation proactively. I never cheat and if youre with a cheater you arent showing her that you value and respect yourself.
Youve chosen to stick with her... so you can try and work things out but i wouldnt do it alone. a sex therapist will help you and her really reconnect. knowing her reasons why she cheated can help you understand her situation... granted her excuse isnt a very valid one no matter what it is. sex for me is a very personal thing. In the end I dont think you should forgive her without her first bearing the shame and sadness she had caused you. YOu do not want to be a guy who has "no hand" in the relationship. it may sound retarded and self absorbed but if it were me thats what i would do.
This post has been edited by TryingToBeAnonymous: Sun Dec 26, 2010 06:58 AM
Posted Mon Dec 27, 2010 05:40 PM
This ALWAYS makes me laugh.... a man can get laid just as easy as a woman.... getting laid is pretty dang easy for a man or woman.... you just have to be willing to lower your standards.... some more than others....
Posted Mon Dec 27, 2010 11:25 PM
If not,ask her if something is bothering her.
Posted Mon Dec 27, 2010 11:34 PM
Posted Mon Jan 10, 2011 06:40 AM
7 years is a long time, but you're not married to this woman, what happens the next time you have relationship problems? back on the merry go round?. there is a fundamental problem here and that's her! if she can go out and have revenge sex coz you had a blowout...... what wont she do.
i know its sounds harsh, but dont try and get inside her head on this one. she will MOST DEFINITELY LIE!
Posted Tue Jan 11, 2011 08:41 AM
This post has been edited by sexxy mama: Tue Jan 11, 2011 08:44 AM