is it real or too good to be true? A perfect boyfriend
Posted Mon Dec 27, 2010 01:58 AM
Posted Mon Dec 27, 2010 05:57 PM
Okay, I was joking... Well, partially. No, he is not perfect and yes, you will discover that as your relationship starts becoming more serious. However, it does NOT mean he is being dishonest. I know it is easier said than done, but you should try to worry less about it. It will just ruin the enjoyment for you. I think you should give it some time - the more he proves himself honest and faithful, the easier you will find yourself to trust him. Have you talked to him about it?
You have probably heard this a lot of times, but, in the long run, it is far better to try and risk to get hurt than hold it back all your life.
Posted Mon Dec 27, 2010 07:48 PM
Posted Tue Dec 28, 2010 02:37 PM
Posted Tue Dec 28, 2010 04:28 PM
Posted Tue Dec 28, 2010 04:33 PM
Posted Tue Dec 28, 2010 05:01 PM
I've seen this a hundred times again...a girl finally finds a good dude and pushes him away in fear.
You need to just trust your feelings and trust him. If you can't learn to trust, you'll never have a healthy, fulfilling relationship.
Posted Tue Dec 28, 2010 05:55 PM
I'm glad you're so happy with your relationship, kissyface.
That said, moving in together two week after you met and knowing each other for only a few months may be two of the reasons why everything's going so well. You're in what's called the "honeymoon period" of your relationship. Things are still new and fresh; the sex is exciting. It's great that you're having fun, but don't get too comfortable quite yet.
I would say that you should definitely continue to have fun with your guy. If things are great, be happy for that. Things may continue to be great, and maybe you and your guy will be together for a very long time.
However, it would be a good idea to remember that you're still getting to know each other at this point. You haven't been together long enough for your and his little quirks to start to annoy either of you yet. He does sound like a great guy, and I'd be willing to give him the benefit of the doubt because I don't know him. But as a few of the posters said, there's potential in every relationship for pain and heartache. Just don't allow yourself to be coaxed into a false sense of security when your relationship isn't all that established yet. Have fun - but keep tabs on your heart.
Posted Wed Dec 29, 2010 11:33 AM