So to start off, at the age of 27 I was still a virgin. (Never had much self confidence in myself due to my being overweight, even after I lost a lot of it as of recent). It was getting REALLY depressing. This past week I decided to head back to my home town to see a good friend and spend New Years there. Went in early that week, and ended up meeting this girl through my friend one night. There was definitely a little flirting back and forth, but that was about it. We ended up hanging again two nights later, drank a little wine at after hours, then decided to bolt where we made it to the back seat of the car and just fooled around (for about 5 hours). Well, we get to New Years Eve, we all go to a bar, drink, dance, and have a great time. I end up asking her if she wants to go to after hours or not, and she shakes her head no. So around 2:30am, we head back to my place, and finally, after 27 years, on New Years... I lost my virginity!
Now thankfully, it wasn't too embarrassing (and lord knows I never told her). The biggest problem was that we had it pretty much dark, so there were a couple times where it took 3 to 4 tries to get it in there in various positions, and once where I just couldn't find where to put it which lead to her saying, "Ok, I think I'm about done." And the other problem was, I never finished while actually having sex with her. I had her go down on me for about four to five minutes before I did. The sex part did last about 20 minutes altogether (not counting the foreplay and blowjob).
So while I'm happy I didn't blow my load two pumps after I was in her, I'm also kind of concerned that it was completely disappointing for her. While I know she got very wet during the whole thing, and a couple times would grab my back, squeeze, moan, and tighten up down there, and it felt like she might be getting off, I don't know if she did (simply because she told me the night before she was a squirter and that never happened). After the whole thing, we basically snuggled and continued making out for a couple hours (which lead to her going down on me one more time).
Do you think it was completely disappointing for her, or was it at least a little bit worth her time? Also, is it weird that I never did finish while inside her, and that it took her going down on me to finish? We texted the next morning, both saying we had a great time over the week, and she did say she looks forward to me coming back to town in four months. I don't know, I just have this little complex now
This post has been edited by Preditor74: Sun Jan 02, 2011 01:44 PM