Seducing him all over again
Posted Fri Jan 07, 2011 01:03 PM
Posted Fri Jan 07, 2011 01:16 PM
have you tried going out of town for a weekend? maybe that way, you can leave all the domestic crap behind and act like different people.
Posted Fri Jan 07, 2011 01:39 PM
We've done the get away thing and it was nice. Money's tight so that isn't much of an option right now, but I like the 'vacation' mentality. I can imagine it would be great to be able to act like a whole different person and maybe pursue some fantasies.
Posted Fri Jan 07, 2011 01:51 PM
Posted Fri Jan 07, 2011 02:55 PM
You could make a list of your top 5 sexual encounters you have had with him.....send it to his email...... ask him to do the same thing in response. Restart the memories of your favorite sexual activities.
You could write an erotic story together.... kids are in bed, get out a notebook.... start writing a paragraph that resembles an erotic story of one of your fantasies..... hand him the notebook and tell him to play along. How hot it makes you knowing what goes through his head.
Make a video of yourself masturbating...looking into the camera... saying his name... saying exactly what you're thinking about him.
This is super simplistic..... but one of the nicest things, I thought and still do, that a girl has done for me..... I went to her house, greeted me at the door with a hug and she told me hold on, be right back, we were supposed to go out to eat I believe. She went to her room, was taking a little bit, she came out in one of my old baseball jerseys and my favorite pair of panties on of hers. Nothing else on. The jersey buttoned down a little bit.
She took the jersey from my place obviously and remembered how many times I played around saying that would be so hot to see her in that.
It's super simple but the thought behind that....and taking the time to do that JUST for me.... those little things to me are what it's all about, shows caring, thoughtfulness, and keeps things spiced up.
Just some ideas!
This post has been edited by aceofstaff: Fri Jan 07, 2011 02:55 PM
Posted Fri Jan 07, 2011 07:41 PM
My partner and I are separated 2 weeks every month because of my work so our fires burn pretty strongly. But a sexy pic, naughty email or phone call certainly puts some more wood on the fire.
My partner was cooking dinner one night and yes, the house was full of kids(we have 4). She was nicely dressed but not completely. I went into the kitchen and up went the skirt showing a nicely shaved pussy. She gave her hips a quick grind, dropped the hem and went back to peeling potatoes. Little things like that will have your fire roaring unless your partner is dead.
By the way, if that's you in the pic, why is the fire not roaring???
Posted Fri Jan 07, 2011 08:17 PM
Before you guys are going to bed....get on your knees and do that thing you women do best.
Posted Fri Jan 07, 2011 08:28 PM
Posted Fri Jan 07, 2011 10:06 PM
Posted Sat Jan 08, 2011 01:07 AM
So why the attack? Sexxy ask for advice and I gave it. I looked at her pics and spoke the truth. She is hot. She is also across the world from me. Not that it matters. I love only one woman!
Posted Sat Jan 08, 2011 07:07 AM
At other points I would have liked her to have put on something sexy and act like a total slut and tell me how much she wanted me, whilst at the same time being suggestive and 'hard to get'. There has been better advice given here, but I think it's something you should consider.
Posted Sat Jan 08, 2011 06:17 PM
Posted Sun Jan 09, 2011 05:35 AM
But this one couple, the wife met him at the door, exactly the same time of day, every work day, she was in stockings and a kimono, she took his coat, case etc, they both went upstairs, she led him, the bath had already been run, the candles lit, she gave him a bath, then they had an hour of intercourse before she went to the kitchen to cook that evings meal.
from what i recal, it is traditional for japanesse women to serve their men in this fashion, she had lived in japan for 10 yrs so she had picked up a few tips, it sounds a bit repetitive, but it works for them. even the bath was at the right temp because of the time it had been run.
one lucky man there!
Posted Sun Jan 09, 2011 09:58 AM
Posted Wed Jan 12, 2011 06:00 PM
Is there anything your spouse doesn't already know that you like, or that you could further emphasize? Is there anything they could tell you to make things a little different and more exciting? If you already know everything that you're both "into" maybe you could try exploring some different fetishes or kinks together to see if there's anything new that might turn you on.
One of my favorite things to do with my girlfriend is to windowshop for sexy heels, since we both find them to be a turn-on.
I love the texting idea and we've had a lot of fun with that, too. It's a great way to not only get your partner excited for a naughty session later that day, but also helps to test the waters to make sure they're in the mood.
I hope tha helps!