fast out masturbation
Posted Fri Jan 07, 2011 10:20 PM
Posted Sat Jan 08, 2011 02:52 PM
Most men under the age of 25 have had this happen at least once. What worked for me was to masturbate myself to orgasm before I had sex with a woman- sometime on the day that I meet her: in other words, if we're having dinner at 8pm, I will have masturbated about maybe 6pm. By taking care of my need, I could focus more on the woman and what she was feeling.Another suggestion is to make intercourse only part of sex. Touch her, kiss her, lick her all over. Suck her breasts, nibble her ear, her neck. Let your tongue trail along the inside of her thighs, before licking and sucking her clitoris. After helping her to an orgasm this way, then enter her and stroke her vagina slowly at first, keeping your attention on her reactions, not your own. Change the pace, the depth of your strokes; slide deep inside her and just stop, letting her feel your full length, and then begin to stroke again."Pleasing the girls" is more than 'deep as I can, fast as I can', and the first thing to remind yourself is "this is not about me, this is about both of us"...
Posted Sat Jan 08, 2011 09:58 PM
Posted Sun Jan 09, 2011 01:34 AM
When you first touch your penis, do just that: touch it, do not stroke it. Hold it in your hand without moving. Close your hand around, then release; squeeze, release. Then let go and and stop again for a few minutes.
Doing this is an effort to calm yourself, to be more sensory and not so goal-oriented. If ejaculation is the only reason to touch yourself, your mind and body run for the finish line, as if a gold medal is waiting. I can assure you, this will become even more frustrating with a partner, so it's best to practice alone. The start-and-stop method keeps you excited, but it may also help you to pace yourself.
Try it; and have fun- that's what sex should be. Do not put so much pressure on yourself...
Posted Sun Jan 09, 2011 01:49 AM
Posted Sun Jan 09, 2011 02:09 AM
Trouble is if you come after 90 secs every time then that'll become normal n be hard to break the pattern.
ScottyWright is bang on,you need to change your focus on sex n masturbation because orgasm shouldnt be the main aim,it's the pay off at the end thats all.
The pleasure is in doing it and orgasm means its over.
When youre alone in your bed,maybe a bit of porn if you must but its a distraction too.
Lay there naked and run your hands slowly over your body,feel the cool air on your skin,take your time to absorb them n feel comfortable being naked.
then lightly brush your inner thighs,belly or cheeks wi your fingertips,then slowly over your balls n cock.
when you get too excited slow down till it passes.
try n go longer each time b4 orgasm,you begin to control it and learn so much bout your body
Posted Sun Jan 09, 2011 02:53 AM
I'm an addicted edger,means i wank but keep myself on the brink of a climax for as long as i can,4 to 6 hours usually.
thats many hours strokin,feeling,teasing my whole body.
when i do come its so intense have passed out b4,had multiple orgasms,my body shaken voilently.
Thats not why i do it thou,its for the hours enjoyin my body.
taught incredible control so never have worries about comin too soon havin sex with a woman.
so slow down,learn to enjoy exploring your body,just holdin your hard cock,your balls in your hand n put off that orgasm as long as you can,,maybe comin feels good but it means its over