i have a masturbation question?
Posted Mon Jan 17, 2011 01:11 PM
Posted Mon Jan 17, 2011 01:14 PM
niether, using someone elses hand is a more pleasurable to masturbate
Posted Mon Jan 17, 2011 02:06 PM
Posted Mon Jan 17, 2011 02:23 PM
Posted Mon Jan 17, 2011 02:34 PM
Totally agree =)
Posted Mon Jan 17, 2011 03:59 PM
I like to look at porn and start to masterbate, I then shut down the porn and close my eyes and imagine being with a certain lady friend. My imagination just runs wild and I get so horny and worked up that I have a wonderful orgasm. Then I clean up and sometimes head for the shower and in there I imagine being with her again and have a fantastic time in the shower
Posted Sun Jan 23, 2011 11:57 AM
Posted Sun Jan 23, 2011 02:55 PM
Of course, if someone else is helping,
Posted Sun Jan 23, 2011 03:13 PM
However, in general, men are more sexually visual, whereas women tend to be more conceptual. These are some pretty broad strokes though, and hardly apply to everyone.
My ex looooved porn. Even if we had plenty of sex, he would want to spend some quality time with his porn collection doing his own thing. He had been a bachelor for so long that his porn time was like a ritualistic down time and part of his routine to relax from the stresses of work.
I was understanding, but it didn't exactly thrill me.
My husband, on the other hand, doesn't like porn videos, because he likes his erotica a little more on the exotic and fantastical side. Therefore, he prefers erotic drawings and imagination when he's on his own. He also has a large collection of photos of me in various outifts/costumes/lingerie/scenarios/etc.
Part of this probably also come from the fact that we had to spend so much time apart in the early years of our relationship, so he often used erotica as a vehicle to masturbate while thinking of me. Porn videos didn't work well for that because he said that no matter how much the woman in it reminded him of me, she never sounded like me and that put him off when he was missing me so desperately.
I'm also a bit of an artist and like to draw erotic scenes, so I have a real appreciation for erotic art, and love that that's what my husband uses to fantasize with when I'm away, or too busy with med school to properly take care of him.
As for me, images and videos aren't really my cup of tea, but being conceptual, erotic literature is always a great way for me to get all riled up. It's hard to find really well written erotic literature, but when I find it, I really love it. What I enjoy the most are creative edits of classic love stories to include graphic love scenes.
Posted Tue Jan 25, 2011 03:10 PM
once you masterbate to quality porn vids there ain't no going back.. if you gonna get off might as well make it pleasurable as possible and why not get some porn, thanks to internet its all free and 0 effort
Posted Tue Jan 25, 2011 03:12 PM