find anal weird?
Posted Tue Jan 18, 2011 02:39 PM
Posted Tue Jan 18, 2011 02:43 PM
anything in your anus will trigger the sphincter to contract and make you feel as though you need to go to the loo, you get over it eventually though as you relax.
Posted Tue Jan 18, 2011 02:46 PM
Posted Tue Jan 18, 2011 02:49 PM
I hates anything anal with the first few guys I tried it with. I really, really wanted to, but I just hated it. I kept feeling like I wanted to push out whatever was inside my anus and just not have it re-enter. It just felt gross.
With my husband, I don't know why, but I love it.
We took our time, and didn't proceed until I felt 100% relaxed and comfortable with proceeding to the next step.
ie: he would put pressure on my anus until I was completely read for him to move his finger inside, but just a bit. Then we would do just that until I felt totally comfortable with him pushing it in further.
Sometimes moving from one step to another took several sessions.
As a result, each tiny step felt great, and we worked our way up to regular anal sex, which I absolutely love and crave, which I never thought would happen.
If you aren't enjoying it, then don't do it.
Anal play is absolutely awful if you're not into it.
Posted Thu Jan 20, 2011 11:54 AM
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Posted Fri Jan 21, 2011 11:53 AM