Posted Sat Jan 22, 2011 02:00 AM
basically, I'm in a fraternity at my school and we have some pretty wild parties, however, im not really interested in talking to girls and I am a little self conscious so im not one to go dance in the middle of the floor to get attention...
with that being said I know that girls find me very attractive but my "game" is pretty much nonexistent....im used to girls walking up to me to initiate...i was wondering for the guys who have been in similar positions as me during their younger years give me an idea of what to do to make girls stare me down and want to fuck me....some people say i appear too shy so people avoid me, while other uglier guys seem to have "it" that turns girls on...honestly i dont like drinking until i blackout to have sex...i am sort of desperate for sex at this point so should i just stand on the dance floor until girls approach me? is that the only way to handle this specific situation?
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Posted Sat Jan 22, 2011 04:02 AM
And as for the situation you are talking about,do you want to be a dad?? Coz you may end up being one!
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Posted Sat Jan 22, 2011 02:43 PM
also keep in mind: Sex in college these days is a very competitive scene because this is the age where women get the most attention from men of all ages. So like the others said women don't have to do the approaching for casual sex because they are getting hollered at by guys on the street, older grad students (TA, lab instructors, etc), guys out of college, male faculty, etc.
oh and what deviant honey says.^^^
This post has been edited by cocoa70: Sat Jan 22, 2011 02:59 PM
Posted Sat Jan 22, 2011 05:25 PM
At parties/clubs you can throw that rule out the window though. I've had plenty of success just being blunt as hell. Last girl I slept with was a one night stand, met her outside as the clubs were closing and said if she came home with me I'd eat her pussy, so she did. In fairness I was pretty drunk and so was she, but that's nightlife for you. Oh and don't ever listen to any of those douchebag "player" "pick up artist" "game" "alpha male" etc. types, they're all overcompensating for some inferiority complex, no doubt, and feel the only way to attract women is to go out of your way to be an asshole. Just be a normal person and don't worry about trying your luck and getting a few knockbacks.