Toys and anal questions Need some info.
Posted Sun Jan 23, 2011 08:14 AM
It's like this. It is an anal fissure. The first time i used the dildo, it made wounds on the anus. Not inside the intestine. Soo i waited a few days to heal up. Even added a rectal healing cream to it to help healing. Last night i thought it was already fully healed, but it wasn't, soo the wound openend up again. I really think this is just because it's my first times and with time it will stop causing pain and blood. Because i have done allot of anal with pens and very long stuff, and never had blood before. Only now because i used something more large then i'm used to. It's really just the anus that hurts. It's not because of any diseases or clean ups, it's because the dildo was large, and my muscle is not trained enough to handle it. This is what i think it is, and i talked with some people about it and they said the same thing. Now i don't know, if i should wait for it to heal up fully or continue doing it.
Posted Sun Jan 23, 2011 02:50 PM
Did you use lube?
There are lots of resources online that can help like this one:
A Beginner's Guide to Anal Sex
If you are bleeding, you are at risk for infection, I would suggest you see a doctor just to be safe.
If your partner tries to penetrate you before you are ready, you risk tearing the anal tissue. There is a possibility that this may have happened to you, but you will not know for sure until you see a doctor. If the thought of explaining your situation may seem embarrassing, relax, your doctor is going to view it as a medical issue and not pass judgment on your sex life. In any case, you need to seek medical attention since you may run the risk of getting an infection or you may have an intestinal infection that may be causing the bleeding.
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