My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 8 months now and we do not ever do foreplay. I have talked to him several times that I would like to do other things then just have sex. I don't like just haveing sex and it's like he does not listen to what i like or what pleasures me. I asked him about it as well why he doesnt like to go down there or really touch me. He says he doesnt like to do that and he has never done it with previous girlfriends. And touching me is more of a task, i've actually caught him timing how long hes does touch me. I have to say for the 8months we have been going out he has touched me for about 45min and went down there for a total of 5seconds. I have to say this to that he is with me everyday so i know hes not cheating on me! I just really need help, anyone that could help me would be great, i just don't understand.
I also ask him whats wrong with me but he says nothing ur beautiful i love evrything about u blah blah, but i just dont get it! :icon_eek:
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NEED MAJOR advice please!
Posted Mon Jan 03, 2005 06:07 PM
Ok , here we go , it seems to me , when it comes to sex , its all about what he wants/needs . The thing is hun , you have needs/wants as well & yours are being neglected & thats just not cool ! Communicate this to him , tell him to drop the fuckin stopwatch & get with it ! Sex is always best when both lovers are mutually satisfied . You say he tells you that your his whole world , well tell em Austailia needs lickin ! "Good Hunting"