Ok. Soo, I apparently have a sex drive which is "extremely above average". My girlfriend has a sex drive which is below average IMO.
It is quite annoying at times. She has been quite good about it though.
It would be great to have sex once a day, twice a day would be awesome (although not always needed), three times a day would be amazing at times... But not everyday.
Sex every second day would be alright too. Every 3rd day is pushing it for me.
I currently only see her on weekends as she studies and I study and we stay relatively far away from each other (45min to 1 hour drive).
So during the weekends (Friday afternoon to Sunday) I would normally get sex twice I guess. Sometimes more, occasionally only once.
During the holidays we spend more time together, things get a bit annoying at times. Also on the weekends the sexual build up becomes quite strong for me at times. I would like to have sex a few more times than how often we have.
Also she seems to enjoy and want sex due to the romance. Although only the romance. I really like the romance in sex, being close, the intimacy and so on (I won't go into detail). Although I like the naughty factor too, the fun and exciting part. That also makes me want to have sex. Do naughty things. She does not want to do naughty things really. She said she wants to do naughty things once a month... That is quite low for me. She would like to have clam and relaxed sex the other times we have sex.
She said she would be very happy with sex once a week. That is a bit ridiculous IMO.
I am 19, she is 18.
So now I am not sure what to do. Common sense says I have to reduce my libido, or she has to increase hers.
Is it easier to reduce or increase your libido? Are there perhaps tablets or something where you can take one daily and it either increases or decreases your libido?
I am hoping you all can help me out, give me some advice etc.
It has not really become a massive problem yet, although I think in the future it may. I would like to avoid that.
I am also not sure how much I would like to reduce my libido.
Do you think my libido is higher than average or extrmely above average? Do you think it is unhealthy?
This post has been edited by psyclown: Sat Jan 29, 2011 04:24 PM