How Did You Find Partners?
Posted Mon Jan 31, 2011 03:31 PM
We have basically come to the conclusion that if we find the right person we would be ok with doing it.
But my question is for those of you who have had this sex before, where did you find your third partner? It's not exactly the same as going out and meeting somebody for a one-on-one. Some will suggest friends, but my gf is more comfortable if we do it with somebody we don't know all too well to avoid any hard feelings or broken friendships and stuff like that.
Anyways, any advice is good advice! Thanks!
Posted Mon Jan 31, 2011 05:06 PM
Posted Tue Feb 01, 2011 10:12 AM
Now, why I make the conversation short: I don't wanna manipulate the person. If the idea is sex, I'm straightforward about it. I say who I am and the things I'm interested on.
If I'm doing it for somebody else (it's always the case if the person is a woman), then I let it clear from the beginning it was my male companion whose eye she's caught. I do it also to avoid misleading. I explain I'm not bi from the beginning.
I think people should be direct, in general. Too much talk is manipulation and deceit. If what is bringing you to talk to that person is the desire to have a 3some, then, let the person know it as soon as possible.
Candor is, IMH experience, irresistible.
Posted Tue Feb 01, 2011 03:37 PM
Long as everything is checked out and safe go for it!
Posted Tue Feb 01, 2011 10:47 PM
Posted Wed Feb 02, 2011 04:50 PM
Go to a heterosexual friendly gay bar. There you will meet people who are gay or bisexual. You and your partner will get approached by both men and women, especially if you are enjoying your time out. When people talk to you just let them know up front what it is that you are looking for. Even if they themselves are not down with it, they probably can point out people who are willing to oblige you in a threesome.
My wife and I have a core group of gay friends that go out all the time and we have gone out with them on numerous occassions. Now even though we do not swing, we do get approached alot by both men and women. When people see that we are a couple, those who are interested in threesomes make note of hetero couples and assume that is why we are there, to hook up with a 3rd.
As I said in the other thread, if I want to go Marlin fishing im not doing it in a lake, instead, im heading straight for the ocean to find the exact fish im looking for.
This post has been edited by Rob2000: Wed Feb 02, 2011 04:51 PM
Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 01:04 AM
hahahahahaha i hope im not a male equivalent Rosie O'Donnel
Posted Mon Feb 07, 2011 06:03 PM
My wife and I just got on that site and it is very well-put-together. We have not met anybody off of it yet, but are meeting with some this weekend. We have been very pleasantly surprised at the quality of people on there thus far. Much better than craigslist.
Posted Wed Feb 09, 2011 05:40 PM
Posted Fri Feb 11, 2011 09:38 AM
Edit .. I think I misread ur question!! LOL
This post has been edited by HappyFace: Fri Feb 11, 2011 09:39 AM
Posted Sat Feb 12, 2011 12:38 AM
im glad you like it, it definitely has more quality local people on it that any of the other sites i looked at before joining there.
Posted Sun Feb 13, 2011 03:37 PM