Posted Sun Dec 24, 2006 10:05 AM
This girl is 5'1" and about 100lbs. She wants to loose her virginity to me, but I honestly think she's too tight. I feel like I'm going to split her in half with just one finger. I'm worried I'm going to hurt her if we try to have intercourse.
Any ideas? The only thing I can think of is to play around down there a bit until she loosens up. But I'm leaving in February for the USAF and she wants to do it before I leave. She really wants to take the relationship to the next level, and I do too. I'm really freaked out and don't want her first time to be a horrible experience. I want her to really enjoy this, because I know what it's like your first time.
Any advice or input is much appreciated! I really like this one and have been with her a long time.
Thanks ahead of time guys!
Posted Sun Dec 24, 2006 12:13 PM
agree on what you're going to do and how you're going to go about it...make sure that you're both happy with your decisions and just talk it over and do your best to communicate how you feel and what you want to do
just emphasize the fact that you're limited on time and she should be ready to accept some pain and you have to respect that and be patient
Posted Sun Dec 24, 2006 12:38 PM
I was with several men before my husband. He is larger than any of the guys I had been with. The first few times were a bit tender, but well worth it. He cared, caressed, but me all hot and bothered. (and wet of course!) I was so wrapped up in the moment that I did not realize I was sore till after the fact.
Just take your time, get her well aroused, us a good lube if needed. Make it about her.
And remember - women smaller than 5'1" have had plenty of sex, and even pushed out more than a few kids! I have a good friend who is 4'11" and I knew her when her cherry got popped. No soreness at all - the guy took his time. She was very active athletically, so maybe her hymen had already been broken, but that should not make a huge difference. Many virgins have had their hymen broken long before sex.
Posted Sun Dec 24, 2006 01:21 PM
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Posted Sun Dec 24, 2006 05:06 PM
My best sex ever was a girl 95 lbs. and just under 5', god could she work it. Man did she love it in the Ass too. .... ;-)
Posted Mon Dec 25, 2006 10:29 AM