Wife cheated !!
Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 02:30 PM
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Posted Thu Feb 03, 2011 08:47 PM
And where was she? Passed out? Sounds like you're not letting her take some responsibility for her poor decision. She put you are risk! And unless you have an open marriage, I'd think long and hard about this one.
Posted Fri Feb 04, 2011 12:30 AM
IMO, once the trust is gone there is no relationship. She said it will never happen again, the day before yesterday she probably would have said it would never happen. If she could justify it once, she can justify cheating again.
Posted Fri Feb 04, 2011 10:15 AM
Posted Sat Feb 12, 2011 03:28 PM
I think I'd be pretty traumatized if my girlfriend did that tbh.
Posted Sat Feb 12, 2011 04:49 PM
Posted Sun Feb 13, 2011 07:03 PM
Posted Sun Feb 13, 2011 09:44 PM
Trust is the foundation upon which all relationships worth having is built , loose that & everything else collapses .
Posted Thu Feb 17, 2011 11:32 PM
Posted Fri Feb 18, 2011 12:28 PM
If you talk to your wife, and decide this is a turn on, great. Make sure some ground rules are set. Can she be with anyone, or just people you approve of before hand? Can you be with other people too? Does her partner have to wear a condom? You? There are lots of issues that need to be discussed out in the open before you proceed with that kind of lifestyle.
If you decide this is not OK, and she doesn't want to change, get the fuck out now. Move your money (not all of it, just yours) into a checking account with your name only. Figure out what is in your name and whats in yours. Any credit cards in both names should be closed otherwise she could run up a big bill and you'll be responsible. And get an attorney ASAP. Even if the two of you decide this is going to be an amicable divorce, she'll get an atty and he'll try to pull all sorts of shit. Been there done that got the alimony receipts to prove it.
If she promises to never do it again, and you want to work it out, well that will be the toughest choice to work out. You need to be upfront and explain how the trust will have to be rebuilt, and she is going to have to work at it as well. You may go so far as to do some of what I suggested above, close joint accts, at least the credit cards. Here is one yardstick, tell her she has to quit and find a new job. As long as she's with her boss the temptation will be there. If she refuses to quit, then see the above paragraph.
If you decide to go with the above and stick together with no extra marital fun, you should talk to an atty about a possible sexual harassment lawsuit. It was her boss she fucked after all, and even if it wasn't forced she could still go with the "I felt pressured to agree to it, thought if I didn't I could lose my job" etc. Of course laws vary by state but you have a good chance at getting some settlement from her company. Worth looking into at any rate.
Posted Tue Feb 22, 2011 11:01 AM
Posted Sun Feb 27, 2011 02:27 AM
Posted Sun Feb 27, 2011 02:34 AM
KICK THAT WHORE TO THE CURB AND STOP BEING SUCH A FUCKING IDIOT.
Posted Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:42 AM