Girls AND guys give me your thoughts!
Posted Sun Feb 20, 2011 05:24 PM
I wanted to get some opinions from both sexes. I'm a guy and I currently have a girl in my life. She does not enjoy giving head that much. I tend to ask jokingly because I do love receiving, but when I feel like I'm forcing her to do it, it's not as enjoyable. I like going down on her, so I do return the favor (and enjoy it)! I guess every once in a while I'd like her to do it without me hinting at it, and make it seem like she does like it. So do any guys/girls have any opinions on this that may help me out? Any guys/girls have any experiences like mine? Thanks!
Posted Sun Feb 20, 2011 07:06 PM
The girl I'm seeing claims she loves doing it, yet I can count on one hand the number of times she's done it without me having to ask her or hint at it.
Don't worry my man, you're not alone.
Posted Sun Feb 20, 2011 08:40 PM
My ex never initiated sex with me, no matter how many times I tried to explain to her that men want to know that our woman wants us just like women to know that we want them.
I told her I was going to stop initiating sex and I did, we went for 5 months with no sex. I eventually cheated because there was a hot young girl throwing herself at me and I couldn't turn her down anymore.
Posted Sun Feb 20, 2011 08:48 PM
Posted Sun Feb 20, 2011 08:58 PM
On that note, i will never swallow... ever! *shudders again* i just cant do the texture in my mouth and throat, its worse than soggy bread and i thought that was bad.
As it goes for every relationship, talk to her about it, its ultimately up to the two of you. So discuss it with her and see if there are somethings you can both work on to get those blow jobs rolling in, or if you are just going to have to get over having bjs all the time.
This post has been edited by LadyR: Sun Feb 20, 2011 09:00 PM
Posted Mon Feb 21, 2011 04:45 AM
Posted Mon Feb 21, 2011 01:35 PM
You're not alone on that one. There are some days you just want a nice blow job rather than just straight up sex, am I right?
I've tried telling my girl over and over that it'd be so hot if she just did it without me asking (and she has like, maybe 3 times, but it's a very rare occurance), same goes for initiating sex, it's always me that does it and it's a bit of a turn off.
It pains me to say it, but if I ended up in the same situation as pool_shark, I'd probably do the exact same thing he did.