Posted Sun Dec 31, 2006 02:57 PM
anyone elsel iek this or am i a pervert??
Posted Wed Jan 03, 2007 09:48 PM
- Pedophiles who use disciplinary spanking as a cover for their predation
- Children who feel sexual violated or stimulated due to a spanking
- In Rape: Lesson No.1 a woman speaks about being paddled in high school by the male principal and how the experience was "the closest thing to a rape as I can imagine". This feeling of violation is not that uncommon it's just never talked about
- An unintended consequence of spanking can be a sexual fixation with spanking or being spanked. Some research has been done on this(I can't find it at the moment) but one of the basic theories is that spanking can cause sexual stimulation causing sex and spanking to become linked
I'm curious what you folks think about all of this, I also want to know what a serious spanko has to say about what affect(if any) childhood spankings had on their spanking fetish.
Posted Wed Jan 03, 2007 10:46 PM
Hanzonmon... I've asked a similar question on a BDSM forum (and here as well) about the roots of peoples BDSM fetishes and the answers were quite interesting. Turns out the backgrounds of fellow BDSM fetishiers are wildly varied.
I was spanked by my mother but rarely, only when I probably really needed. I was never paddled in school. In my case I don't feel that that has much to do with my enjoyment of the threshold between pleasure and pain though.
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