this guy is an idiot!....or is he?
Posted Mon Jan 01, 2007 02:44 AM
Should I force small talk to let him know its ok to just be civil? Him not talking makes things awkward.
Posted Mon Jan 01, 2007 03:11 AM
Posted Mon Jan 01, 2007 05:50 AM
sounds like this guy is acting really immature. mistakes were made, he just cant face his, where as you have grown and overcome your mistakes.
you might need to just give him some more time, and if he doesnt come around, i dont see what else you can do.
Posted Mon Jan 01, 2007 12:18 PM
i think what it is.. is that when your friends with a girl, especially when shes friends with your friends... if either makes a move beyond that, like he did saying how much he liked you, then that means he STILL likes you, and im sure he gets jealous seeing you and not being to at the very least have the relationship you had BEFORE the sex.. because if you never had sex and just stayed friends maybe NOW something would happen
and also, in front of friends, it can be hard for a guy with a girl that he has admitted to liking, its just the nature of males, they are not as good at dealing with emotions in the open... he probably just doesn't know how to act, because if hes said he likes you but knows you want to be friends he probably doesnt look you in the face because he feels that you will see in his EYES how MUCH he does LIKE you
you have to understand that people tear things in their life down alot of times because of how much they LOVE them.. its just a weird aspect of human behavoir.. hes probably instinctively pushing you away because the connection you have with him/he has with you is too strong for him to handle
Posted Mon Jan 01, 2007 12:20 PM