How big is Sex in your relationship?
Posted Tue Jan 02, 2007 02:34 PM
At any rate, I'm interested to know that if the sex in your relationship dried up, is your bond strong enough to get past the lack of physical intimacy.
Posted Tue Jan 02, 2007 03:16 PM
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Posted Tue Jan 02, 2007 05:45 PM
We have some nights that we just sit around bullshiting, drinking, and enjoying each other's company. Just yesterday she said how cool it was that we can hang out togather, doing nothing, and still have a great time.
I think that being able to have great sex is just as important as being able to have a good time without having sex so...ummm.. 50% would be the percentage since you asked for one.
Posted Tue Jan 02, 2007 05:51 PM
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Posted Tue Jan 02, 2007 05:58 PM
I'm going to agree on that too. I was in a relationship where I had to beg for sex and affection too. That's part of the reason he and I aren't together anymore. Now I'm with someone who shows me those things completly. Even though sex is important, if it came to the point where one of us physically couldn't have sex anymore, I know we'd still be together. As long as we were still able to cuddle, I'd be ok.
Posted Tue Jan 02, 2007 07:39 PM
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Posted Tue Jan 02, 2007 11:29 PM
I would put it at about 40%, but my wife -- I think -- would put it at about 10%.
Posted Wed Jan 03, 2007 08:38 PM
Once I reach a point of sexual satisfaction with a partner, then everything else starts to take on much more importance. So the percentage changes with time for me based on how my sex life is going at the moment.
If I had to take an average, I too would have to vote for 50%.
Posted Sun Jan 28, 2007 12:16 PM
I see her about once sometimes twice a week and most of the time we'll have sex. At the moment the sex is good and getting better asnd because we don't see each other everyday it means it builds up a bit of anticipation which is great.
Posted Sun Jan 28, 2007 02:07 PM
The last couple of years have been tough and my husband's sex drive has gone, whereas mine has grown and I want it constantly. I hope we get through this, but as Cardinal said, when there is problems, it seems that sex is all that matters.
Posted Sun Jan 28, 2007 04:54 PM