Posted Fri Mar 11, 2011 09:57 PM
Posted Sat Mar 12, 2011 04:39 AM
You don't have to wait, but keep in mind that she's probably not going to be around in case you want her back.
Posted Sat Mar 12, 2011 08:27 PM
Aww, that's really sweet you...
Oh snap, playa!
Tell her you want to put the relationship on ice during college, and that when you're both done, you can pick things up where you left it. Won't happen, obviously, but it feels better than a dump.
Posted Tue Mar 15, 2011 01:55 AM
Posted Tue Mar 15, 2011 02:49 AM
Posted Tue Mar 15, 2011 02:58 AM
This post has been edited by MissB.Haven: Tue Mar 15, 2011 03:02 AM
Posted Sat Mar 19, 2011 09:42 PM
Posted Sat Mar 19, 2011 10:33 PM
You have a really faithful girl who's willing to do the whole long-distance relationship thingy (Like Odysseus and his wife), but you want to end it because you want to have sex with other girls who live closer to you...
Well I guess it's your choice. i'd tell you not to end it, and to reciprocate the faithfulness, but your happiness counts too.
Posted Sun Mar 20, 2011 12:00 AM
Posted Sun Mar 20, 2011 04:53 AM
the other thing, your currant g/f, well i understand totally where you are coming from, but i would not leave it and tell her, i would phone her today and say look, do u think we can survive the next couple of years being soo far apart? put the ball in her court, if she says no, you can split as friends, but it must really come from her.
Posted Sun Mar 20, 2011 12:39 PM
Like MissB.Haven said, I would also rather have honesty, then be lied to in anyway. I appreciate honesty in a relationship above all else. I don't fully understand why you want to drag it out and break up in the summer, but if you feel this way now, break up now.
As for waiting... hey, you're young . If you respect her and care about her and you do have sex with someone right away, just try to make sure it's discreet... so that she won't find out. As I said earlier, I'd rather have honesty above all else in a relationship... key word being: IN a relationship, if you're not in a relationship then quite frankly you don't really owe that to her. But I will say, if I were in her situation and I knew you were hooking up with chicks right after breaking up with me - I'd probably be upset, so it depends on how much you care for her as a friend. There are some things that shouldn't be shared, even if you want to stay friends with her afterwards.
Posted Mon Mar 21, 2011 08:51 AM
Posted Mon Mar 21, 2011 09:12 AM
Anywayz, if its not there then its not there. just be gentle and move on with your life
Posted Mon Mar 21, 2011 03:08 PM
That my freind can only be answered by you.
It's whenever you feel comfortable.
It's not as if you'll be bumping into your currant gf every day as you say yous are long distance's from each other. She'll never know then how long you withed unless you tell her
Posted Wed Mar 23, 2011 03:55 PM
Posted Fri Mar 25, 2011 09:15 PM