anal Sex Question
Posted Fri Jan 05, 2007 02:16 PM
Im new here ;-)
Me and my girlfriend do not want to go into vaginal sex for now but we do masturbate each other (hand jobs, fingering, etc) and perform oral sex on each other.
Now we are thinking of going into anal sex.
Now my question is: whether I should use a condom for anal sex?
Also is there the risk of pregnancy from anal sex i.e. precum slipping inside her vagina. I do not intend to cum inside her ass but on her tits or stomach or in her mouth as we normally do.
Also what types of lubricants are the best?
Any other tips?
Thanks for the help.
Posted Fri Jan 05, 2007 03:40 PM
First and foremost... make sure you both really want to do it. Anal sex is probably the most intimate thing I've ever done, it takes so much more work than vaginal sex. I would wear a condom becasue sometimes infection can occur... and to be extra safe in the risk of pregnancy. The chances of pregnancy are very slim, but there is still a chance. I personally like KY jelly as a lube... but I've heard that Wet works well too. Make sure when you use lube for anal sex it is not scented or warming... because it will burn her, trust me I know from experience.
One other important thing to think about always is that it does take time to adjust to a penis being in your butt... so go slow, it would probably be better to use your fingers in her first just to loosen her up a little bit and get her used to the feeling of having something in there.
Have fun and good luck
Posted Fri Jan 05, 2007 03:45 PM
Be relaxed-make her cum once or twice before you attempt it and take it slow and easy.
It's better to have too much lube than not enough.
Posted Fri Jan 05, 2007 04:35 PM
Also thanks for the tips - This anal business seems tricky
Posted Fri Jan 05, 2007 06:24 PM
My best lube is my pussy juice but that's just because I make lots of it when I know I'm going to get it in the ass.
Posted Fri Jan 05, 2007 09:05 PM
Never go from the anus to the mouth. Ever.
Posted Sat Jan 06, 2007 12:59 AM
Posted Sat Jan 06, 2007 01:32 AM
to the original poster, condom is a good idea. make sure that if you add a lubricant you do not use a petrolium based one as that will distroy the rubber. and yes, lube is a good idea along with gradual work up to full size.
Posted Sat Jan 06, 2007 01:51 AM
the next time you eat her out, right when she's starting to cum, stick your finger in her ass and make sure you make her suck on that clit to make her really cum while your finger is in her ass. That way she'll associate anal sex with cumming and a good feeling. It should make her more receptive to getting fucked in the ass.