All comments are welcome and appreciated!!
Ladies, I need your help here
Posted Thu Mar 24, 2011 01:40 PM
All comments are welcome and appreciated!!
Posted Thu Mar 24, 2011 01:47 PM
I'll think about it for you and see if I can come up with any suggestions to help...
Posted Thu Mar 24, 2011 02:56 PM
You're being too hard on yourself about your looks. You have at least one fan with Cougar, so you do have something going on. Your biggest roadblock is most likely how you're perceiving yourself atm.
What kind of woman are you looking for? Where do you go to find them? And what's your approach?
Posted Thu Mar 24, 2011 08:53 PM
but i do agree with mr curve on the pants situation.
Posted Thu Mar 24, 2011 10:05 PM
Posted Thu Mar 24, 2011 10:26 PM
Neither one of these things are true I can assure you and there is someone for everyone, believe that.
Not trying hard enough is usually the problem and I don't mean trying harder with each woman you meet I mean it's all in the numbers, the more women you introduce yourself to the quicker you are likely to find someone.
Ps. It's good that you get dressed up when you leave the house because first impressions are everything and you never find them where you think will
Posted Fri Mar 25, 2011 08:33 AM
Posted Fri Mar 25, 2011 10:41 AM
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This post has been edited by ScottyWright: Fri Mar 25, 2011 12:22 PM
Posted Fri Mar 25, 2011 03:49 PM
Posted Fri Mar 25, 2011 03:50 PM
If you think that you are overweight, why not join a gym if you think that might give you more confidence in the way you look. Your a big (tall) guy at 6'2" so i wouldnt worry so much about the weight issue, unless it is affecting your health.
What's your personality like, ie, are you an out-going chap, are you easy to talk to, are you a funny guy that can make people laugh, that kinda stuff. Know what i mean?
Keep trying to chat up the ladies at bars/clubs or were ever you hang out. If you get turned down, so be it. Move on and dont let it get you down, plenty more fish in the sea as they say.
Your only a young fella @ 24 years old, so dont be so hard on yourself.
Hope you get what your looking for.
PS. They are some funky pants you have on in the 1st pic. Just class looking.
This post has been edited by WeeWilly: Fri Mar 25, 2011 03:51 PM
Posted Fri Mar 25, 2011 03:53 PM
Isnt that what every woman wants? hehe.
Posted Fri Mar 25, 2011 03:58 PM
If YOU have an issue with your weight, then do something about it. If you are comfortable with yourself then just act that way. Be happy and be yourself.
Posted Fri May 13, 2011 07:45 PM
If you're unhappy with yourself, you'll attract that externally to yourself.
Look inward, discover the root of what has you unhappy (hint: it isn't that you're unsuccessful with women. It's deeper that that), and then take teh steps to bring about change within you.
How do you do all of this? Visit the self-help section of the book store. There's tons of books to get you started.
Also, stop looking for love, stop strategizing, consuming youreself with it, etc.
Simply hit the book store and open your mind and put in some work (fun, exciting work) and then simply go out to have fun, meet people, etc.
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Find like people with like interests, focus on living life, along with doing the "fun" work, and love will come along.
There's not only someone for everyone, but multiple people for everyone. Start with yourself first, though.
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Posted Fri May 13, 2011 07:55 PM
that bright smile, that amazing velvet chocolate skin, yeah I think I could show you a real good time!
oh shit sorry... you wanted advice. I don't know you well enough to give any honest advice, but I can definitely tell you that you LOOK great!
This post has been edited by (EmpireGirl) The Queen: Fri May 13, 2011 08:00 PM
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Posted Wed May 25, 2011 12:10 PM
I think you have a great smile! Keep it up.....Hang in there. They say there is someone for everyone and I have to believe that's true.
Posted Thu Jun 30, 2011 10:27 AM
It's tough... but relaxing about these issues might be the way to go. The more you stress the more it weighs on you and the bigger the problem becomes (in your mind). We're our sexiest when we're not plagued with anxiety so do things that make you happy... You have a stunner of a smile, too... so laugh and laugh long!