Posted Mon Jan 08, 2007 09:54 AM
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Posted Mon Jan 08, 2007 03:34 PM
Well I'm glad to know that I'm not the only person to have this problem!
I thought I had a sexual disfunction.
Usually it's when I'm having sex with someone else. I don't normally have this problem if I'm by myself.
I'm a guy and allot guys may find this hard to believe but I just can't pick a girl up at a bar and fuck her. I have to get comfortable with the person first. I have to be relaxed. If my body feels run down from lack of sleep, not eating right , etc. or if I am really excited like from drinking allot of caffeine and can't calm down I have trouble.
I had sex with this girl last week and never could go. I felt embaresed about it because she thought she was doing something wrong. She said she had never met someone that wasn't a "minute man" as she put it. She said she had 5 orgasms yet I never could get off.
But I had this same problem with my X G/f from time to time who I had been with for quite sometime. Since we only had sex when she wanted it, I had no idea when I was going to get it. It was like on some days I had no problem at all but others it just wouldn't happen.
I think allot of my problem is my dick doesn't like condoms. But I'm not going to risk not using them.
And the fact that if I get it in my mind that I can going to go limp during sex I usually do. If I don't think about it, I'm usually OK.
This is probably normal but it seems the older I get (I'm 36) the longer it takes me to get off. When I do have sex with someone it would usually take me about 15 minutes to get off.
Also when I was a teenager I kept a woody all the time and could masturbate about 4 times a day if I wanted to. But here lately my sex drive varies. Sometimes I'm horny as well and can masturbate once then 10 minutes later get horny again. Other days I don't really have much of a sex drive. Some days I wake up with morning wood (which I always did before I hit my mid 30s) and other days I don't.
Is this normal for someone in their 30s?
Posted Tue Jan 09, 2007 02:28 AM
I mean, I can be horny as hell and masturbate and whatnot, and lose it in the middle. It ends in a so-so orgasm, but because of the conviction I've felt I feel that I owe it to myself to finish.
And some girls, too, just dont do it enough for me. I have lost it mid-sex plenty of times and I just feel like going and playing some video games and whatnot. lol.
Sometimes we can get it back, sometimes we cannot. It depends on my mood and the girl too, I guess.
Posted Tue Jan 09, 2007 02:29 AM
I'm a male btw.
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Posted Tue Jan 09, 2007 11:10 PM
Sex? No problem. I could still do that two or three times a day if my wife wanted to... unfortunately, her libido is no where near that. I am experiencing quite a bit of frustration lately.
Posted Tue Jan 09, 2007 11:17 PM
Yeah, long story short, I got distracted.