is this normal or not? My girl likes quick sex, she wants that I would move quickly in and out. But the problem is that my thing is not feeling pleasure when the action is quick, but it feels the pleasure when I move slowly. The same goes with masturbation - I have tried - when I stroke quickly I loose erection and when slowly then it feels good. Not always, when I am near orgasm it also does good when I move quickly.
I am new two sex, I had it only few times, and only once I have ejaculated - when I was really horny, and that time I ejacualated after couple of minutes probably. Then I did an oral to her (but it does not feel that good and tasty after I had ejaculated, its better to oral when I am not ejaculated).
And then the same evening we were having sex second time and my girl had orgasm, but for me it looked that it can take one more hour until I ejaculate so I stopped because I didn't feel good about the girl who had an orgasm already and wants to rest. If I would done this slowly and not thinking about the fgilr that she wants quick moves, then I maybe would have ejaculated faster.
Edit: oh forget to say that we also tried her sitting on me, in car. And the same - we could not do it well because she moved too fast and my penis didn't feel pleasure and so it became softer. Don't even know how to tell her to move slower I myself when I am on top move slower, but still not slow enough, because she keeps saying that she wants faster
This post has been edited by asdfgh: Sun Mar 27, 2011 09:25 AM