The "Bases" What do you think?
Posted Fri Apr 01, 2011 05:06 PM
Posted Fri Apr 01, 2011 05:36 PM
It seems like everybody has their own version of the "bases," and there's always something slightly different. But my general take on the "bases" is this:
-First Base: holding hands, making out, etc. Not clothes off or touching of private places (even breasts).
-Second Base: Touching with a barrier between your hand and the other person's body (i.e. rubbing her clit through her panties).
-Third Base: Touching underneath clothes or with clothes off. Skin-to-skin contact. No penetration. This would include fingering her. (Some people include oral sex here as well. I'd say that oral sex is somewhere between Third Base and Fourth Base.)
-Oral sex - this is where it goes for me, but I don't really have a "base" to cover it.
-Home Run: Penetration - vaginal and anal sex. (Some people include oral sex here and consider it to be a form of sex, which I guess is correct. I can see why some people include oral sex here.)
This post has been edited by Miss_C.: Fri Apr 01, 2011 05:44 PM
Posted Fri Apr 08, 2011 03:01 PM
This post has been edited by telboy18: Fri Apr 08, 2011 03:01 PM
Posted Tue Apr 12, 2011 06:01 AM
I never thought of it that way, because I never bought into the idea that sex was something boys had to coerce or trick a girl into agreeing to. We could kiss for eight hours straight, and I'd be cool with it, because I wasn't expecting or trying for anything else.
And I never got into conversations with other guys about how I 'scored'; I'd save that for sports...