Do you wake up alone, wishing you had someone to hold, love, kiss, fuck, etc?
Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 08:21 AM
Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 08:57 AM
My hubby lives overseas and comes home every few months.
Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 09:48 AM
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Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 01:55 PM
Yes, sex isnt everything... however just to HOLD SOMEONE... i think that is something to consider, right?
Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 04:39 PM
I do agree though that it is nice just to have someone there. Sure I loved it when I was single, but that was only for about 9months and I would far prefer having someone than no one.......I'm just lucky I found me wife!
Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 04:46 PM
Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 05:46 PM
Now that I've found some one to spend the rest of my life with, I love waking up next to him, I love falling asleep next to him.
Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 09:03 PM
He's away tonight and I miss him terribly.
Posted Sat Apr 02, 2011 10:19 PM
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Posted Mon Apr 04, 2011 04:11 PM
Do I wish to have someone to hold, love, kiss, fuck, etc?
Yes, to all of the above.
But not all the time, and not always do I want all those things from the same person.
I have two grown daughters, one with a son, whom I love very much.
I have a woman in my life whom I love, but because of the way we both work, I was with her for a total of six weeks during 2010. If I were to agree to monogamy, one of us would go crazy or one of of us would just go. When I have the urge to 'fuck', I do. No hesitation, no guilt, no apology. Skype is great, glad to have it, but it can't give me the feel, the aroma, the taste of having my face between her legs, my nose in her fur and my tongue touching pink...
I have many people around me who fulfill my need for touch/hugs. I'm very tactile, so I touch people when I talk to them, hugs and kisses for hello and goodbye- to be within arm's reach of me is to be touched, man, woman or child. Water, air, food, human contact...
Even a therapeutic, non-sexual massage can do wonders for my well-being- just being touched makes me feel human again. As I say, though, I don't go a day without being touched- even if it's just a hug from one of my co-workers.
Interestingly, for me kissing is the least frequent item on the list. A little kissing occurs before sex, but to just hold someone and kissing- with no expectation of anything else- is rare for me. Not that I'm unwilling, mind you...
So when I wake up alone, I don't wish for contact- I go get it.
Posted Tue Apr 05, 2011 08:38 AM
Even though I do know what it's like to not have someone wake up beside me, I don't have anything to compare it to.
Just a big 'unknown' for me I guess. I wake up, turn on the tv, open the laptop and fire off some knuckle children.