Long Distance Relationship
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 12:22 AM
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 12:33 AM
alright man i know exactly what your goin through i went through the same exact shit. when she gets there to see you if your feelin up to it let her know how you feel about everything because if you hide she may never know. if you like her you will find a way to make it work i did for a year till i finally go to come back home and me and my girl been together 2 years and goin strong trust is a major factor and some say starting out long distance helps the relationship cause you have to put all that trust in the other person it only makes everything stronger. hope i helped a lil bit but yeah i know how you feel its kinda sux but then again its great all at the same time so your not sure what to do but hey if you like her you just got to go for it and if she is not the one then hey you can find another girl out there
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 12:48 AM
i do like her a lot! but on things i bring up if she doesn't like it she gets pissy about it. and pulls a guilt trip card. for instance she said i'm sorry for being a terrible person for not being able to be there da da da and i was just joking around about it.
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 05:37 AM
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 10:13 AM
With the number of deployed young men abroad, I can see how things have become more difficult in terms of relationships for all of you. Honest, I sympathize... However, I feel that starting a relationship while you're in the service and being deplyed is not a good idea.
Posted Thu Apr 21, 2011 03:56 AM
Posted Thu Apr 21, 2011 05:01 AM
but we literally got hooked on each other and she sent me pictures and letters and I fell for her, and I've never been so nervous when meeting her for the first time, and it was better than expected, we literally fell for each other in the week we were together, and we stayed together for a long time, because the trust was there.
I say you don't get involved if you feel you have issues, until you meet her and spend some time together. Because people can be different than you expect when they're away from the keyboard.
Hope it goes well mate
Posted Thu Apr 21, 2011 12:44 PM
It seems so sad when a girl does this to such a nice guy! Especially when you are being deployed, If you honestly like her why not give it a shot!
But if you arent allowed to talk to her while she is going out and having fun that definitely throws up some red flags.
No matter where i am i always make sure my s/o can get a hold of me
Hopefully things turn out ok!
Posted Thu Apr 21, 2011 04:34 PM