Posted Mon Jan 15, 2007 10:24 AM
I have to admit, I'm not a "bad" looking guy. I'm a bit on the heavy side but not "fat" or "obese". I can be confident when I want to be. I can talk to girls.
Why can't I be like some "players" who go to a nightclub every week and wind up in bed with 1 or more girls every week.
By the amount of girls on these forums, I see that a lot of girls are just as horny as guys, yet I can't seem to pick them out from the ones who are just interested in casual "making out".
What are some pointers you SF regulars can give me?
Also, recently I've found myself very attracted to Australian girls. (I'm asian and I live in Australia) Yet I don't see many (if any at all), Australian girls with asian guys. Is there something I have to change in my attitude to quench this thirst I'm going through at the moment?
Posted Mon Jan 15, 2007 10:32 AM
If you want to have random sex with women at clubs just to have sex with a lot of women then I don't know what to tell you because that sort of attitude turns me off entirely.
Be sociable. Go to day time clubs for example, like based on hobbies other than drinking. Meet people that way who you will see on a regular basis through multiple sessions of attending that club. Find a woman you are attracted to who you can hold a conversation with and you can flirt with. That is one good way to find a woman to have a relationship with, and in your case hopefully lots of sex.
Again, though, if you're just looking for lots of random unattached sex I don't know how to help you with that.
Posted Mon Jan 15, 2007 12:44 PM
Posted Mon Jan 15, 2007 09:44 PM
thats your problem, you cant turn confidence on and off, you either are or you are not.
Posted Mon Jan 15, 2007 10:03 PM
Posted Tue Jan 16, 2007 08:35 AM
Posted Mon Jan 22, 2007 05:25 AM
Are you on the Goldcoast, i used to live there and got loads of action off dating sites.
Posted Mon Jan 22, 2007 07:56 AM
What you should be looking for is a friend; someone you have something in common with that you can know and get to love, and loves you.
Yes, I know you are desperate..so masturbate until you find this person. It won't hurt you. True happiness between two people takes time.
Posted Mon Jan 22, 2007 08:39 AM
But, if you just want unattached sex and nothing more, try going to clubs or hire a escort for the evening.