im curious about sex.
Posted Mon Apr 18, 2011 07:02 AM
Posted Mon Apr 18, 2011 07:41 AM
Sexual dreams are a good things yes, as long as they are pleasurable. If they are making you uncomfortable that's a different story.
As to your other question, get your hands on as much reading material as possible, there are digital libraries online filled with info that will clear up many of those curiosities.
Posted Mon Apr 18, 2011 07:59 AM
Posted Mon Apr 18, 2011 10:52 AM
Posted Mon Apr 18, 2011 10:54 AM
Posted Mon Apr 18, 2011 02:55 PM
Your curiosity is totally normal and healthy.
The best thing you can do is satisfy it! Do your research - educate yourself. Learn as much as you can about sex.
If you are a virgin, having the knowledge will be your biggest asset because you'll know how to protect yourself and have safe sex that's healthy for all parties involved once you get to that point.
If you're not a virgin, that doesn't matter. There's always room for more knowledge and improving your skills.
This post has been edited by Miss_C.: Mon Apr 18, 2011 02:56 PM
Posted Mon Apr 18, 2011 07:27 PM
Posted Tue Apr 19, 2011 11:48 AM
Personally speaking, sex is very serious and not something you can quench for long. You can get pleasure and relief, but it will be right back to haunt you again. Quick sex feels good, but leaves a lot to insecurity. She might never be able to remember your name when you call up for a second date...OR CARE...cause she already has some other guy waiting.. I never believed in one night stands, sleeping around, instant gratification and have turned down women who haven't grasped the concept of a serious relationship... gorgeous women too. I think quality sex is worth waiting for...quality is when you become good friends, then lovers and then sex. Love is combined with sex...which is so much more enjoyable and long lasting.
Any other way seems to put the cart in front of the horse and you can spend a lot of time catching up to ghosts in the closet, old boyfriends, and baggage that's hidden and sometimes a deal breaker. If she won't be there to comfort you when you are feeling sick, you are probably not in love.If sex is the only thing holding you together, it will probably fail.There are lots of guys out there who have become Father's to someone else's baby. Easy to get caught. You don't want this.
However those are my ideals and certainly not everyone's idea, but you did ask for comments. EDOPHOLETEUS
This post has been edited by edopholeteuspedrini: Tue Apr 19, 2011 11:59 AM
Posted Tue Apr 19, 2011 12:47 PM