Posted Tue Jan 16, 2007 04:22 PM
I also try to give her tips, but then she gets upset because she thinks she's not doing a good enough job (which i disagree too, and i've told her).
So what should I do? Everytime she is trying i let her know it feels great and not to stop and that she is doing a good job. Is there anything else I can do to make her feel better about it?
Posted Tue Jan 16, 2007 05:00 PM
It sounds like you're an awesome boyfriend so just be patient with her and she will get better, she will adjust to it. There is also the chance that she is afraid of semen... I remember those days too.
Anyways.. good luck
Posted Tue Jan 16, 2007 05:34 PM
if your laying there like your falling asleep she will think your bored.
If your too keen and start pulling on her head she will get scared.
I say slightly move your hips but not thrust you dont want to choke her.
Moan a bit if you feel comfortable and whisper how fucking good it feels.
when she stops go down on her, she will return the favor again and give her jaw a rest
Posted Tue Jan 16, 2007 05:50 PM
Posted Tue Jan 16, 2007 05:55 PM
Posted Tue Jan 16, 2007 06:09 PM
I am curious if you've ever cum from getting head. I ask because I know that, for me, during the first handful or so of times that I have a particular sexual experience it is difficult for me to get off because my body and my mind aren't used to it. They have to sinc up with my comfort level in order for that to happen. After I do get used to the experience though I have, for example, gone from not being able to orgasm at all during missionary position sex, to being able to do it in like two minutes if I want to. Maybe you have had the same sort of experience and this could be explained to your girl. That if she could be patient with you until you do cum from getting head, then it will get easier for both of you. And also encouraging her to do things you like will of course help that as well. Just my experience.
How long does it take her to get off from oral? Maybe you could show her that the more you do it = the more she gets used to it = the better you get at it = and the quicker she is able to get off. That way you are also both giving something and learning and there is less focus / pressure on her alone.
Posted Wed Jan 17, 2007 06:54 PM
Once she has oral and cums from it she will love it