Both my girlfriend and I are 18 years old and we've been having sex for about 8 months now. I've always had issues with getting off too early. I've tried the stop and go method, i've tried focusing on other things, and even the extended pleasure condoms or whatever they are with the "numbing" cream in them, but nothing helps. does anyone have any advice? Along with that issue, since i get off too quick, i have to use my hands to get my girlfriend to orgasm, and the last month or so, i havent been able to. i used to have no problem, but recently i havent been able to get her off. any tips on how to help her orgasm? anything new i could try?