hooking up with an older woman
Posted Sat May 14, 2011 08:30 AM
Posted Sat May 14, 2011 10:41 AM
Just see how things develop and the fact your chatting on Facebook already shows she has some interest in you. Maybe get her online via something like MSN or Yahoo as well, so you can chat that way. Drop the odd flirty comment in as well, see how she reacts. If she is interested chances are she will pick up on it and flirt back. Once that happens take it from there!
Posted Sat May 14, 2011 12:34 PM
I don't really think age has anything to do with it. Treat her well and just like you would any other lady of any other age. If it's meant to be it will be, if not, it won't.
Also you could try telling her honestly that your interested in her sexually. That would probably help a great deal.
Posted Sat May 14, 2011 12:48 PM
Posted Sat May 14, 2011 06:17 PM
Posted Sat May 14, 2011 11:36 PM
Posted Sun May 15, 2011 09:16 AM
Posted Sun May 15, 2011 03:07 PM
Posted Sun May 15, 2011 11:32 PM
Posted Wed May 18, 2011 07:49 PM
Posted Wed May 18, 2011 08:48 PM
Posted Tue May 24, 2011 06:43 AM
Very well put...and very true! Who has the patience for games!
Posted Tue May 24, 2011 06:45 AM
Posted Tue May 24, 2011 08:37 PM
Posted Tue May 24, 2011 10:42 PM
but if you think she is compatible to you get to know her better like wants, hobby, etc.
Posted Sun May 29, 2011 12:04 AM
Posted Mon Jun 06, 2011 12:38 AM
Getting anything from her. Worth a shot. i have always wanted to hook up with an older, experienced woman. how to get an older women interested in a younger man.
It sounds less like a friendship, and more like fetish shopping. If she is nothing more to you than the object of some fantasy, just tell her the truth:
"I've never fucked anybody my mother's age; how 'bout it?"
But I can assure you that a woman of 50 has already heard any come-on line a 20-year old can think of- and a few dozen more. So, if you're chatting with this woman for the sole reason of trying to score, simply say what you've got to say and be done with it. Do not insult her intelligence or her experience by going through some book of sure-fire pick-up phrases, thinking she'll be impressed- she's already been where you're trying to go.
On the other hand- referring to your other post- Christians fuck.
Belief in Jesus Christ does eliminate erections and orgasms from one's life. What most openly Christian women do not usually respond to is being hit on in an open forum.
Most of them see sex as a component of a close, committed relationship. If knowing that she goes to church is enough to send you running to the hills, she now sees that you're just some kid, treating her as if she's one of the rides in some OlderBabe theme park.
Christians who are into getting a casual lay would like a bit more discretion, because many of them (in America, anyway) will pretend that sex is the furthest thing from their minds, and nothing could be further from the truth.
Personally, I want nothing to do with someone who cannot be honest about who she is, and all the lying and sneaking has a very un-Christian smell about it. I mean, if it is the relationship with God that is the focus of one's belief, and if God is even half of what people think He/She/It is, why lie and sneak around?
God already knows. You can only be hiding your true nature from other people.
But, I digress...
The bottom line is, if this is someone you'd like a friendship with- even if she doesn't want sex with you- great. If this is just a cybernet booty call, it may not be worth your time...
This post has been edited by ScottyWright: Mon Jun 06, 2011 12:40 AM
Posted Fri Jun 10, 2011 06:57 PM
just because she is older doesnt mean shes a puzzle